especially ones that are supposed to be there as say they are there for you when in reality they aren't they have walked away
2006-09-25 14:24:53 · 9 answers · asked by juleslovesbears 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They are there when you need them if they are good friends, but not always near when you want them. To have good friends you must a good friend.. and hey we're here.
I'm sorry what was that?
OH, you, yes... if you need help you have thousands to help.
2006-09-25 14:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by Guy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone always says they are there for you but when you really need them they disappear.. These are called fair weather friends they are there for you through all the fun times but will up and leave in a second when things get difficult. Its better to know who your real friends are now then to have fake people in your life... And the friends that do stick around are going to be there for you for life... Its better to have 2 or 3 real friends than to have 20 fake friends.. Even so the only people you can depend on is yourself and never let anyone or anything make you feel down because your special in your own way and thats all that matters
2006-09-25 21:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know. Just today I quit a friendship with Jewels. She and another one of my friends, Brookelyn, are fighting. And pretty soon. that will be literal. Brittany, another one of my friends told me that Brookelyn was cheating on her boyfriend, when she wasnt. Jewels overheard, and told Brookelyns boyfriend. He broke up with Brookelyn shortly after. Brookelyn threatened Jewels. then Jewels threatened Brookelyn. When I refuseed to choose sides, Jewels starting talking **** about me behind my back. I wanted to turn to Erica, a friend I've had sice I was 8 (I'm 14) but she seems to be ignoring me lately. I guess it's times of pressure when you realize whos your real friends. but be careful. It's always the closest friend who will hurt you. Erica was my first friend. We were supposed to be friends forever. But that didnt work out to well. So Keep your eyes open and pay attention to all that happens around you. You might be surprised. I know I was.
2006-09-25 21:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should realize that they might be using you or something....Also how many times have they done this to you.
You have to be prepared and independent for when this sgtuff happens because it usuallyhappens alot. They probably know they are hurting you so they maybe do it on purpose. If you see them and they act different just forget them. And don't keep forgiving them because they probably think that you are weak and they think you are predictable. All I'm saying is you have to open your eyes. I am here to give advice......
DON'T LET NO ONE BRING YOU DOWN!!!!
2006-09-26 19:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in their own world, being selfish.doing them. I've been there myself. and then they want, you to be there. for them. but I've learned in life. the true friend, you have in life today. that will be. there, when you need them. and stick to you, like a sister, brother, mother, father, or friend. is'' God '' all you have. to do is call, talk to him he'll hear you. or read your bible. and when you learn, to trust him. and believe, you look around. your problem's resolve, no one in your business. your problem gone,
2006-09-25 21:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by nisey 168 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are flirting with your crush, eating your favorite food and paying after stealing your money. Friends can really suc k sometimes...im so sorry if your having a porblem with one of your friends--i hope it gets better!!! good luck :)
2006-09-25 21:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with their wives or girlfriends, or taking care of/raising their children.
2006-09-25 21:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by isis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are true friends just look to your side and they should be their!!
2006-09-25 21:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by LIZARD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i KNO WAT iT FEELZz LiiKE......JUSS GiiVE EM TiiME ND THEY SHUD COME THRU
2006-09-25 21:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by sweetbabe7291 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋