i met a woman 9 months ago. when we would have sex she would give me head, then after we moved in together and told each other this all but stopped. she told me that my semen has a strong odor and in the beginning she was trying to show me a good time but now if i love her i should understand and not want head anymore. (i have never came in her mouth).. so i researched this and found that i could be my diet so i decided to stop the caffine intake to help. when i told her what i was doing she blew up and told me that i was forcing the issue and i should let her do it in her own time. the last time was in early july. i thought she would be happy that i was listing to her and trying but i guess not.
2006-09-25 13:55:43 · 7 answers · asked by keithy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like she gave head to get you to move in with her. now that she has you, she doesn't want to do it
2006-09-25 13:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Provided that you've had a doctor rule out any possible problems, you are right, diet is a big factor in the smell and taste of semen. If the real problem is the strong odor then I highly recommend drinking a glass of apple cider or eating raw carrots about a 1/2 hour before trying again. These treats actually "sweeten" the semen and reduce odor. Avoid alcohol completely because it actually has a very negative effect on taste and smell.
If your live-in is not willing to try again then I would venture to say that the problem is her and not at all the smell. She needs to be willing to be honest and open about the real issue. Be easy and gentle in your approach with her. She may never be ready to talk to you about it in which case you need to decide that you can live without head or move on without her.
2006-09-25 14:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by tollerx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to say on this one. She should have been happy that you took the initiative to change something about yourself. Sit her down and talk with her again; find out why she blew up at you this last time. If she enjoyed giving you head before, and now she doesn't want to, there must be another reason besides the odor of your semen.
2006-09-25 14:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult for someone to do a sexual act that she feels uncomfortable with for whatever reason. Trying to force the issue will only make matters worst. If receiving is an important part of your love making and she is not willing to do it often enough to meet your needs, then perhaps you should decide if this relationship is right for you. I feel that oral sex is an important component of a healthy sex life and it can be very frustrating if you are not getting a healthy dose on a regular basis, especially if you are giving to her.
2006-09-25 14:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it goes deeper than the taste for your gf. Maybe she just doesn't like doing it full stop. I do understand that this is a big thing for men to be without, but would you really want her to do it unless she really enjoyed it? Aren't you defeating the purpose of trying to please her if you're forcing her? I would try to cut down on strong tasting foods as well like garlic, chilli etc. You should ask her to try one more time, maybe since you've watched your diet it's improved?
2006-09-25 14:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by kmlloveplant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...you're pretty desperate to obsess about this. Move on and focus on something more productive.
2006-09-25 14:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know, guys dont really know how to word things to say to their girlfriends. They may TRY to sound nice, but either way, it comes out all wrong and turns out to be things you DO NOT ever say to your girlfriend...ever. Just let her do it. Or get her drunk and have hot drunk sex. but you have to be drunk too
2006-09-25 13:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋