He has 4 kids age: 6-13... (I only have one daughter and she is in college) So, I got tired of being the maid, babysitter and cook... plus he didn't respect me or appreciate me... It took me 2 years to finally have enough of that treatment...
2006-09-25 13:36:35 · 14 answers · asked by tammette39 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was not only happy/estatic when I filed for divorce from my ex, but I was also relieved. I was stressed a bit until it was done 3 months later, and even more relieved once it was over, but still very happy. I had had enough of his being a pig, liar, cheater, user, abuser, etc. He thought, and still thinks, that he treated me like a queen! HA!! He has NO idea what that means.
Anyway, you are not alone for feeling happy about filing for divorce. It can be natural when you are sick and tired of being mistreated and know that you are, finally, going to be free of that mistreatment.
2006-09-25 17:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound horribly heartless. first of all this guy sees his toddlers once per week. How is that even justified? each make sure has the right to work out their youthful toddlers on a common foundation, watch them advance, practice them about existence and produce them up. the actual shown reality that he's being waiting to grant those youthful toddlers all that love and jointly supply you the interest and love once you 2 are on my own is magnificent. I comprehend you sense skipped over at the same time as he's at the same time with his youthful toddlers yet thats because you're only no longer getting extra in touch at the same time with his youthful toddlers. Please attempt to bond extra with them. The western subculture seems to have only one answer to each and each of the topic matters of a relationship and that is divorce. i'm no longer declaring that you should be sidelined in a realtionship and that you shouldnt feel free. yet between 2 human beings and their relationship happiness would not only come onto their laps, you've were given to paintings for it. Marriage is exertions, for anybody. it really is by no skill a mattress of roses yet what's mandatory is that you need to be prepared to compromise. you could not supply up so quickly. look i somewhat imagine you want to advance a bond at the same time with his youthful toddlers so as that they enable you to into their lives. once you try this you all change into one vast relatives and there only isn't a reason for you to stay on the sidelines. Please do not supply up so truthfully. Love is advantageous and uncommon.
2016-11-23 21:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by zito 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have different reactions to filing for divorce. I was so relieved I just about cried. Other people are really sad.
You'll probably find yourself going through a lot of different emotions in the upcoming months. Take your time and feel them and take time for you.
2006-09-25 13:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My divorce was final on my birthday and I took back my maiden name. Is that poetic or what?
2006-09-25 13:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by porkchop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I was happy I lost 165 lbs of ugly fat plus she is a psychopath wouldnt you be happy
2006-09-25 14:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by tp3bop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, and I'll never get a divorce, because I don't believe in divorce, I love my husband very much, and always will be.
2006-09-25 13:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was on the same situation and i was soooooooo happy when i filed for divorce!
2006-09-25 13:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that decision made u happy then definitely m happy for u too
2006-09-25 13:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u moved forward in ur life or turnednanother page
2006-09-25 13:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. It can be a bright, new beginning. Good luck to you.
2006-09-25 13:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋