A long time ago, I was engaged to a wonderful woman; unfortunately, she left me before the marriage, saying we "wanted different things in life" (which was true). I know she really left me because I was competitive, compulsive, jealous, and generally a pain in the ***. We have not spoken in almost 20 years and we are both married, have careers, happy lives, etc. Yet, I still feel really guilty about how badly I treated her and would like to apologize... I want to write and say "I realize how badly I treated you, and I'm sorry for hurting you." But, is it too late? And, would it even matter to her, or just stir up bad memories? I really need your help!!!
2006-09-25 13:35:18 · 12 answers · asked by CvilleGuy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you're both married and happy with your life then i guess there's no need to apologize. just add her in your prayers because if you'll write her there's a possibility of complicating things... GOD knows if you're sorry and just Bring it to GOD to avoid some misunderstanding...
2006-09-25 13:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's NEVER too late! But keep it simple, just say that you are sorry. You want to keep in mind that her current husband might not feel respected, if you contact her w/ all the details and stories of your past together.
2006-09-25 13:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As others have said!! Its Never Too Late!!
Just dont go into details of what ur sorry for!! Might hurt her even more!! Keep it simple and u should be right!!
2006-09-25 13:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
while the area brought about to lots injury... particular possible nonetheless ask for forgiveness even though it would be no longer something yet an empty one with the aid of fact if the guy become quite sorry they might have pronounced so as quickly as they found out they made a significant mistake...
2016-10-17 23:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by cardish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not to late. I would do it right away and I'm happy that you understand that you made a mistake. You cant see this but I'm clapping for you...Most men won't admit to that.
2006-09-25 13:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt matter if its 100 years later. it is NEVER too late to apologize. shell probably think ur very mature and be happy u thot of her.
2006-09-25 13:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never really too late to apologize except when that person is dead and gone
2006-09-25 13:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iI is never too late to appologize
Especially when it was someone you loved
I would do it if I were you... you'll make yourself feel better as well as make her remember that you were really a decent guy after all
2006-09-25 13:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably wouldn't stir up old bad memories and it would be a nice jesteur that she would probably appreciate.
2006-09-25 13:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her happy life alone, and continue to make ur marriage work.
2006-09-25 13:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by VEROMEX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋