ok...i really really feeel like crying right now. i was in school and in mathclass and then i was telling my friend that i was getting dressed this morning . and that i didn't know wat i was going to wear. then she just came out of nowhere and was like what size are you? i'm like wat do u mean? she's like in bra's?
so i felt embarrased as hell and said like a 36 d. she was like wow, u are really big. then i like felt to crash down. and she was like " wow that is really huge" and i'm like" i know." i just kept laughing along with her. i wanted to cry right there. i didn't acknowledge her for the rest of the period. oh and i'm short like "5" and 130 pds....so yeah it shows a lot. is there anything u guys can tell me to help reduce them without surgery or buying some kind of cream.
2006-09-25 13:35:01 · 24 answers · asked by ღbrownsugarღ 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Thank you guys for writing and supporting me.
2006-09-25 13:41:36 · update #1
Thank you guys for writing and supporting me. But I just can't acccept the fact that people are not staring at them! my school, people will laugh at you and i just can't ignore them if they are right in my face.
2006-09-25 13:42:34 · update #2
First of all, I wish I had big boobs! I have a 36 B. If you really want to get rid of them though, all you can do is lose weight. For your height, you might want to weight about 110 pounds at least. Don't go smaller then that. Ignore that girl in your class though, I bet she was just jealous, I know I would be. I bet she is flatter then a 12 year old girl, lol. Don't worry about it though, really, it is not a big deal. I am 5'2 and weight 130 pounds. Everyone is different, and you are beautiful no matter what!!!
2006-09-25 13:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by italianbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 40 D, but they look smaller. Why? Try a minimazer bra, such as Bali minimizer. I reduces your size by about 1 3/4 inches (according to the Bali website). It should be easy to find affordable minimizers.
& I don't think that you should do surgery, or even lose a lot of weight. Enjoy the body you were given, it's the only one you've been given. Don't take what people say to heart so much. You'll realise later that some people talk for no other reason but the fact that they have a mouth, and really have nothing important to say.
Try to take such comments with a grain of salt - laugh it off, even if you feel hurt or self-conscious.
At this point also realise that a lot of people are jealous of ladies with larger breast size...so they'll make fun of you...get accustomed to it!
It may be uncomfortable as well when you're talking to guys because some guys have no manners, and talk to your chest instead of your face...another reason you may feel like a temporary reduction at times!
Also concentrate on support...
Hope I was able to help a little, & I hope you feel better soon...Put you friend's comment in perspective, and brush it off.
2006-09-25 14:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by vdrt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey do not change a thing. I bet if I saw ya you would look just fine, besides she is probably just jealous so no worries. but hey it could be worse.
I saw this girl that was real pretty about 5'6 and weighed about 99 to 105 pounds but she had real big boobs. She was walking like she was about to fall on her face, it did not look good.
But with you're height and weight I think you would look just perfect.
No worries, and keep ya head up. If any body's says different then they can answer to me.
smile girl tomorrow will be a better day. *wink*
2006-09-25 14:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by Bullz_ eye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off as a grown woman I can say DON'T YOU DARE!!! Trust me, boys will like them one day, I have 36D too and my boyfriend wishes that he could take them with him in a box to play with whenever he wants, but you are really young and don't need to know that kind of stuff right now. You will like the way you fill out clothes, you will feel more feminine, but they make the boys kinda stupid too so just take care of yourself. I love my boobs!!!!Your friend is just jealous and that is why she keeps staring at your chest. You can however exercise, that will help alot in shrinking them a bit and get you healthier too.
2006-09-25 13:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by CandyCain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me.. she is jealous of your breasts..
If you're worried about getting teased for having big ones imagine how the girl feels that gets teased for not having any at all (getting called all types of pancakes and ironing board titts)
There are women all over the place paying 5000 and up to get the big breasts you naturally have...
I'm in a 40DD and was wearing a 34D when I was 12.. so i've had big boobies all my life just about..
2006-09-25 17:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by reddy_locks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're beautiful......accept your body babe, lots of girls would kill for it I am sure. Unless it runs in your family they will eventually get a bit smaller, or you'll grow into them more. God gave you those breasts.........accept them. If you think you look top heavy go to either Mervyns or Pennys and have the lingerie clerk show you the minimizer bras...........they should bring you down a cup size.......and button won't pop!
Be proud of who you are and comfortable with what you have!
2006-09-25 13:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I agree with the folks who said don't worry about the exterior stuff - it's who you are that counts, not what you look like.
On the other hand, if you wanted to get some, there are bras you can buy that make your bust look smaller. Reducing bras, they're called.
2006-09-25 13:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not care about that to much that is how you are going to be your whole life! So who cares if you are a 36d some people wish they where that size. i hope that helps! and dont be to hard on yourself. That girl had no right to know any way. Just reamber you are a unique person and you are awesome!
2006-09-25 13:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assalamu Alaikum sis, and Eid Saeed Insha'Allah :) i wish that you're feeling better effective on condition that u wrote this!! i needed to respond to right here coz i visit kinda relate- after we celebrated Eid the day previous, the day all started with me feeling quite down...u see i'd merely lately lost someone who i presumed turned right into a real buddy yet i stumbled on that she did not love me like I loved her- and we've been spending Eid which includes our kiddies for the previous 4yrs now- yet no longer this 3 hundred and sixty 5 days :( besides, besides the very undeniable truth that my day all started no longer so gr8, it truly did get better effective- i stumbled on myself making Du'aa that Allah carry me some well matched ppl who i visit celebrate the day with, and that alongside with my alluring relatives truly eventuated and that i finished up having the finished EID up to now Alhamdulilah......i wager the moral of the tale is to have Tawwakal Allah u comprehend? positioned ur faith and position self assurance in Allah Ta'Ala and turn to easily HIM even as u are in choose sis- and Insha'Allah u will be ok.....peace
2016-12-02 01:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, you have the opposite problem as mine...
but i can see why you were embarrased. just know that many women spend thousands of dollars to get breasts like yours. in the meantime, ask your mom to buy you a good, supportive minimizing sports bra. i good one might be a little expensive... but it will hold your breasts up and keep them snug against your body so that they won't look quite so large. also avoid tops with busy prints that draw attention to your breasts. wear tops that don't have buttons or decorations in the breast area. check out these websites for some tips on drawing attention away from your breasts.
http://www.melange4women.com/drforyoboty.html
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/12286332/wid/6448213/
http://www3.telus.net/barbaracoultish/Your%20Body%20Type.htm
2006-09-25 14:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by ŧťŠ4 · 1⤊ 0⤋