a girl at my school really wants to be my friend. the problem is that she used to go to the school that my dad teaches at. She keeps trying to invite herself over. what should it tell her? I dont want her for my friend anymore than my enemy.
2006-09-25 13:34:38 · 8 answers · asked by diamonds_are_forever<3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she used to go to the school. I think she might be using me so she can find out where her teacher lives and tell all her friends. shes also kinda a bad kid.
2006-09-26 12:57:59 · update #1
Wouldn't it be better to ask yourself why you are not open to getting to know her?
!. Was there a problem when she attended the school where your Dad taught?
2. Is there something about her personality or looks that you can't get past?
3. Don't you think she's lonely and, being new at your school, no-one has been receptive to her.
4. Could you be friends without asking her over?
Sometimes we forget how others may feel when they are placed in new surroundings. Maybe she could be included into your group of friends or you could introduce her to someone else you think may be lonely.
2006-09-25 13:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by sugarplum 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth and tell her how you feel. You should just be honest with her and tell her you do not want to be her friend right now. The best thing to do is to be up front with her. Do not play games and also do not be rude about it. Tell her and make sure that you are telling her the best way you can.
2006-09-25 20:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just straight up tell her no. You can also be her friend or be friendly to her in school and eventually she will get the message.
2006-09-25 20:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you are sorry but you don't want to be friends anymore because she always invites herself over and you don't like it and you need friends that dont do that and that you really dislike her doing it
2006-09-25 20:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does your dad not like this girl or something? Why would she be your ememy. I would invite her over. what the heck why not? give it a try.
2006-09-25 20:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by dancingurl_22 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are lucky she goes to a different school. Just tell her you are busy a lot. She will get the message.
2006-09-25 20:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be her friend.
2006-09-25 20:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her in her balls
2006-09-25 20:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋