one is an ex-husband from 11 years ago and is 10 years older (41), the other my boyfriend of 1 year and is 9 years younger (22). i am 31 years old and very confused....help!!!!
2006-09-25 13:27:15 · 9 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your ex-husband is yout ex for a reason. Obviously something went wrong that lead to a divorce. Don't think for a second that things would be any different the second time around. Your other boyfriend sounds like he is too young. Dump them both and get a fresh start.
2006-09-25 13:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down, ok? u dont have to make a decision right away. and u shouldnt make it until ur sure of how u feel. the most important thing is ur own happiness. dont feel like u have to chose one of thse guys either, maybe the fact u cant chose between them, is niether are really the one for u. how are they treating u? do they rush u? or try to convince u that they are the one u should chose? thats not the type of guy u would want
⥠len
2006-09-25 20:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you really in love? or just comfortable? Think about why you left them before you decide and the one you left for the worst leave him the hell alone..But I believe an ex is an ex for some reason!
2006-09-25 20:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by VEROMEX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you still love your ex I would try to get back to him...The younger one is probably a little less mature...He may not be emotionally ready for a big commitment
2006-09-25 20:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe it is possible to love more than one person in a romantic way. you may still have feelings for the ex but he is an ex for a reason. its probably better for you to move forward and not repeat the past!
2006-09-25 20:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? a 22 yrs old that you are going out? Your ex is for reason. HMM you should dump them. Find someone else like your own age and treat you like they respect you and like you for who you are and not what you have.
2006-09-25 20:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by simpLy_mamiヅ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one is love and one is lust, learn to tell the difference, good luck, i have been there and it is a hard choice and you will more than likely make the wrong one and lose them both.
2006-09-25 21:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by jojomiles16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex is propably the best choice your boy friend now is way to young.
2006-09-25 20:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by the#1manwiththeplan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there was a reason that the EX became an ex......
2006-09-25 20:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by shawnthavirgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋