2006-09-25 13:23:23 · 17 answers · asked by rayray 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just be there for him, Its probably a phase. There are times that guys don't want to be kissed, or held. Be in the same room,watch TV with him,DONT TALK. For a lady that seems harsh, but for a guy, your just being there, sharing time is sometimes more important than anything. Basically be nice to him, no questions, he will open up in his own way.
After about 3 days if nothing changes, seek counseling.
2006-09-25 13:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Toy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, look like this guy of yours is very leak of romance. After married we can't measure who do more to keep up the relationship. Is all about how much love we have for each other and how much or tender loving care and patient for eac other. Since he is so stingy with kiss, then you be the one who kiss him.
I am married for 17 years. I have been kissing my husband since 6 years ago bcos he had the same problem like your hub. I kiss him whenever he leave home, when he alight me to work, at home when pass by him. One party have to whole the relationship together. If not huband, wife will have to do the job.
2006-09-25 13:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be open with him and talk to him about your feelings.
Explain to him that you feel neglected and that since the two of you are committed to one another, you would like some affection. Ask him why he doesn't kiss you. If after your chat with him, he persists being this way then suggest counseling. If he refuses to seek marriage counseling with you or it doesn't help then it's time for a divorce.
A loving husband will always show affection to his wife.
2006-09-25 13:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have considered that before you got married. Is there a reason why he doesn't show affection that way? You just got to ask him up front what the deal is and make sure you tell him how it's effecting your relationship with him.
2006-09-25 13:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by MommaMia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayeb he is busy making a home for the 2 of u..... if u ve decided to marry him u must be liking him a lot....so talk to him about ur feelings.... and support him if he is going through a tough time..... u can always kiss him whnever u feeel like.. odnt expect him to start evrything....maybe he thnks the same about u...
2006-09-25 13:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a serious heart to heart with him over it, tell him what you want and ask what he wants, married life shouldnt be routine
2006-09-25 13:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by sadistic_bondagelover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize it's over and start planning the rest of your life.
2006-09-25 13:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you two were married in a Catholic church, withholding affection is grounds for divorce.
2006-09-25 16:51:35 · answer #8 · answered by Bronweyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried using a stronger mouthwash
2006-09-25 13:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spice up your sex life.
Theres loads of ways to do it. The links in the sources box might help
2006-09-25 13:25:21 · answer #10 · answered by Lilolme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋