a) have actually cheated
b) thought about it
c) and if you did, what was the reason
2006-09-25 13:20:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you have cheated, please explain why
2006-09-25 13:22:06 · update #1
Yep.
Yep.
Wanted a divorce. I was not in love w/ him. I just hadn't told him or moved out yet. So when I met someone attractive I felt no reason to say no.
Not proud of it.
2006-09-25 13:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I bet every woman has thought about it. Cheating actually goes against a woman's very nature, a woman generally craves stability. If a woman cheat it is likely to be because of anger, or years of emotional neglect. You might want to do a little research on exit affairs. A woman or a man will have an affair when a relationship is unworkable, as a way of getting out of it. The relationship rarely lasts into the long term, but it is born out of a need to feel loved, and grows out of contempt for a spouse, and hurt. Affairs are complicated matters, but a when a woman does it, the relationship is probably over, beyond saving.
Have I thought about it, sure, like I say, every woman probably has thought about it, but it is going to take quite a bit to get a woman to step out.
2006-09-25 13:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by n_of49p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO- i have never cheated,and if i have to ever think about it then that means that person is not the one because if your fulfilled you dont think about anyone else like that if your connected emotionally and phisically its not worth it, and why i never cheated, because before i do anything to someone including cheating i ask myself--would i want this person to do this to me.even in relationships if im not happy i dont cheat even though in previous relations theres been emotional neglect and it goes on but cheating woudnt have made me feel no better, i just move on- that's the problem now people dont think of consequences they just think about the moment,i know how much it hurts to be cheated on by someone you really care about--besides i need good karma not bad karma and we all know what goes around comes around-yes it will catch up with you!this has alot to do with why relationships dont work out now---i have noticed with alot of friends when females cheat its because of neglected needs or abuse and dudes cheat well the ones i know cheat because its a way out and they dont want the responsibilities but somebodys gotta be the bigger person---like my situation rightnow---well i wont get into but,please people under no circumstance dont cheat!
2006-09-25 14:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i HAVE actually cheated. i've was married just shy of 8yrs when i began my affair. the reason i cheated... which is also the reason almost everyone has an affair.... is that my emotional needs were NOT being met by my husband.... this i have realized after a long time in counseling. for years though i have had trouble in my marriage though i just brushed the problems under the table. many things become clear when a relationship is in turmoil. approx 13 months later i have left my husband and the divorce is pending. and YES i am still with the other guy. i know my chances of making it with him defy statistics but sometimes it is worth taking a risk... afterall... you only go around once in life
2006-09-25 13:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by aspen099 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have cheated in a previous relationship after I found out that the guy I was with at the time was cheating on me so I guess it just to get back at him and I made sure that he found out about it. The relationship I am in now I have not cheated but I have thought about it, I seen an ex of mine and all I could think about was how good the sex was. But I didn't do it.
2006-09-25 13:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
a) DNA studies show that 10% of the children born in the US were not fathered by the husband. I would assume many more have actually done it.
b) All women have thought about it. Most quickly decided not to.
c) Yes I have had sex with men other than my husband, and I suppose curiosity and thrill seeking were the main reasons.
2006-09-27 14:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by ann_tracks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have actually cheated. Lack of communication. I always complain that I hate cheaters, I do, but I'm quite hypocritical. I did it because my boyfriend and I at the time were having difficulties and he didn't like to talk about them. I became frustrated and did anything to get away from the emotional pain.
We got some help from a friend that has personal experience with relationship advice. We're now engaged and happier then ever.
2006-09-25 13:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I was married to my first husband I cheated. He totally ignored me all the time. Always had better things to do, and was never home.....Not a good reason, and I learned from that. In fact, what goes around comes around and my second husband cheated on me.
I am so very happily married now, I would never ever think about it. I know the consequences all to well.
2006-09-25 13:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by MrsMike 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I haven't cheated on any one or thought about it. If you really like a girl and thought that she was cheating on you then just ask her in a nice calm way and try not to acuse any one of cheating.
2006-09-25 13:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Morgan B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think every woman has thougth about cheating but then they think about how good they have it and change their minds or they think about how bad it is and cheats with everyone. I could never cheat my man is good to me and we trust each other so much he goes out with his friends and so do I. 4 years now and no jealosy.
If it is not broken......
2006-09-25 13:25:51 · answer #10 · answered by adoll_35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋