I used to go around and I'd get with girl's boyfriends but that was exactly a year ago. Alot of guys like me but alot of people call me a slut. I don't dress too cad. I go to private school. I just date alot of guys. Not even at the same time. Just I get bored so I dump guys...I've dated roughly 47 guys and never been dumped...It's really bugging me because I've had the same boyfriend for the past 19 days (that's good for me)...yea so please tell me what I can do to make people stop calling me this =(
thanks in advance
xoxo
Kelli-Bear
2006-09-25 13:14:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
the **** spells out S L U T....
2006-09-25 13:15:48 · update #1
mmkay well I only started playin gthis game a year ago...did it for about 2 months and now I actually look pretty...well i'm told that so yea...it's not lik eI've had like 3 years to work on this number
2006-09-25 13:22:07 · update #2
didn't think i'd have to add this but I'm as christian...so yea this makes me purtee much hopeless huh?
2006-09-25 14:06:35 · update #3
If you don't want the name, don't play the game!
2006-09-25 13:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by x_southernbelle 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey, couldn't help but notice one thing more than the others in your question. The part about that you've never been dumped. Don't know but sort of struck me as to think that you might have a fear of rejection so you don't give anyone time in any relationship to reject you first. Being called this must be really bothering you or you wouldn't have asked a question about it or giving it a second thought. So if it is bothering you stop and take a break for a while and work through the things that are bothering you about it. When people see you stop doing the things that you named the **** name calling will stop, after time. If it's not bothering you (but it seems to be) have a good time, but stay safe worse things these days out there than being called a ****. But I know that that is a name that hurts. So Kelli-Bear best of luck and take care.
2006-09-25 13:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by bigjg 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Once you have ruined your reputation by "getting with" other girl's boyfriends and dating lots of guys, it is hard to convince people that you have changed. Actions speak louder than words and from what you are saying here, I think that your actions are saying that you need to take a good look at yourself. It sounds like you may deserve the name. If you don't like it, then you need to make some changes in the way you treat people(girls and boys). Your actions will always be what people judge you by, so live according to how you want others to think of you.
2006-09-25 13:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by georgiapeach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay with the same guy for a long time or else without any guys for a long time. .
people will talk and call names whether or not they should.. you can't let what other people think determine how you feel about yourself and how you feel in general. . but their thoughts won't stop til they see you stay w;/ the same guy for a long time or just be without a boyfriend for a long time (and don't see you with any guy during that time)
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by the way.. I agree with some of what bigjg said up above me. .
he pointed out you've dated 47 guys and none of them had dumped you. . and that maybe you had a fear of rejection and so you'd always beat the guy to the punch (drop him before he dropped you). . . .
you remind me of my best friend before he was married. . he dated about 150 girls/women, before he finally met his wife (and now he's been stable and married to the same woman for 25 happy years). . but he told me the reason he dated so many women was he'd dump them before they could dump him. . he'd beat them to the punch. .
if that's why you're doing it, maybe you should try staying with one. . and if he beats you to the punch, so what?. . you'll have tried.. then with the next guy after that, maybe you'll make it longer. . and maybe someday it won't matter that much whether you beat him to the punch or get dumped. . you'll realize you're valuable for who you are.. and not whether someone dumps you or not. . just be yourself and don't worry about what everyone else says. .
good luck and God bless you !
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If you're a Christian, great! God forgives and He'll help you work on your self-esteem and who He wants you to be. Go for it! God is in the business of rehabilitation, and He heals and fixes all who come to Him for help and healng.. Again, good luck and God bless you!
2006-09-25 14:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Wayne A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To get people to stop calling you that is to probaly actually get to know the peole you date before you do anyhting dramatic with him and be nice and kind and say polite things like please and thank you, but not too much, you don't want to scare them off. And even changing your look the slightest bit might help, you never know.
Well I hope everything goes good foy you.
Bye And don't be sad be glad :)
I'v never been on a date, but I do kind of know that, that is what guys look in a girl for.
2006-09-25 13:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by 360poop 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL 19 days does not make for a long term relationship...but it made me laugh. And bravo on the 47 guys, did they all have girlfriends at the time? I think you graduated from a s*** to a w**** ,so at least they will stop calling you a s***, So you may have solved your own problem : )
2006-09-25 13:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by Da Wizard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not only does that make you a ****, but someone with low self-esteem and almost no self-respect. Leave the boys alone and work on yourself. Then people won't call you a ****...Get it? Good. Now find yourself a hobby, and no, sex is not a hobby. Pick up a book, watch the news. There's a world outside the three-foot personal space around your body.
2006-09-25 13:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by mindrizzle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hunny i used to get it to, the best thing you can do is ignore it, dont worry bout what people call you, just be yourself, but i would suggest you try and slow down a bit, find someone that you could imagine spending more then 3 weeks with and work at making it a month thing or even longer, goodluck hun, and if itss any constolation i dont think your a ****
2006-09-25 13:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by Boots 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
are you sleeping with a lot of the people you're dating? if so, then i can see why people would get the impression that you are, what with the number of boys being so high.
if not, then it's just people being catty. people grow up (somewhat) as you get older, and move away or go to college. there isn't really anything you can do to stop people from calling you it, though.
2006-09-25 13:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by kylexo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop doing things that would make people think you are one, get with a guy who you think you would like to be in a relationship with and stay with him.
2006-09-25 13:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by chyna 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you like to freak you just like to freak no more than anyone else. Don't worry 'bout them hata's. But remember what you are doing and know that what you are doing to other peoples men will come back on YOU!
2006-09-25 14:03:18 · answer #11 · answered by kerri_godwin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋