What do you think? I don't want to be overly concerned but at the same time, I don't want to a fool. There are situations when people in general say we're just taking about business. Only to learn doing more than talking & doing a lot of other things as well. Keeping my guard up, I don't want to be no one's dummy. I was fine with it but now I'm not.
2006-09-25 13:08:55 · 21 answers · asked by Sunshinz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Has he ever given you a reason not to trust him? If not, then you must take his word that it is only business. If you over react, then he may begin to resent you for not trusting him.
2006-09-25 13:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by JillA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just get fooled.
Now, have you listened in on the conversations? Been in the same room? Do they sound like business conversations? If so, you may be overreacting.
Is business cutting into your family/spouse time? If so, you need to put your foot down. No one can serve two masters. Psychologically, the order of importance in anyone's life should be
Self/Faith
Relationships/Family
Work
If the two of you don't have the same order of importance in your lives, you need to work something out.
2006-09-25 20:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it smells like Sh** then it usually is Sh**. Do some investigation of your own. It may sound a little childish bit if you want to find out if your husband is even thinking about cheating with another women snoop around, listen in to what he is saying on the phone with out making it obvious, If it sounds like business then it is but if it sound more like pleasure then you might have trouble.
hope things turn out well
2006-09-25 20:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by justcurious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he talking in front of you or does he have to always go in another room? If he can never speak to her in front of you or acts weird in any way when she calls, I would definitely be suspicious. If it's "business" that can't be conducted during regular business hours and it's cutting into the time he should be spending with you then you have every right to question the number of hours he's spending talking to her.
2006-09-25 20:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, it's your gut instinct crying out. Don't ignore it and never ignore a situation that you don't feel comfortable about. A relationship is a partnership where both must contribute pretty equal portions; some will contribute more in some areas but the other fills in the gaps.
2006-09-25 20:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a man and i'll tell you this much,unless you talking six figure profits your man is talking about another type of business.no guy i know would talk for that long unless he's already getting some.but dont jump to conclutions look at the rest of the picture,is he not as afectionate,attentive,distint,late sudden meeting out of the blue look for other tell tale signals and if there present to then you have a legiterment gripe and it's not just in your head be sure and then confront him,as much as it hurts me to side with a woman it's not right to do that to a person that you love,me personally i can forgive and forget but i just cant bring myself to be with that unfaithful person again...it's just not strait aand down right dirty.
2006-09-25 21:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by Berhane Selassie I 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he goes into another room to talk then yes i'd be very suspicious, if he talks in front of you and u can hear the conversation i wouldn't...It's all about perception, tiny little signs that u pick up on...the way he moves, the way he looks at you, the way he speaks to you...If u really aren't happy about it, then confront him and just ask. .
2006-09-25 20:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Susie2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes on the phone only and its business i would not worry.
But if you know for a fact he spends time with her and the
conversation is inmate then its probably not a good idea that
he is friends with her. It could lead to other things ?
2006-09-25 20:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Road Warrior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is to listen in while he's having conversation w/ her without letting him know you're listening. If it turns out to be business talk afterall, let it go and just learn to trust him.
2006-09-25 20:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women cannot be friends without one of them wanting more. Business can be saved for the office. Tell him it's either her or you. Since you made vows to each other and committed to each other, that's not a lot to ask of him. If he does not agree and you still don't want to end your marriage, get a friend of your own. See how he likes it.
2006-09-25 20:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by claud 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋