okay, so i have this guy friend that's a year younger than me. his real name sounded a bit like mine, especially with all the FOB kids on campus calling his name, so i took it upon myself to rename him. should i not have done that? did that send the wrong message?
now, he's clingy. like he's ALWAYS around, and when he sees me or my 'twin' he approaches us like he wants a hug, but we always try to find a reason to avoid it. and he's always doing stuff for us, like buying our lunch. personally, i dont like to abuse his nice ness.
im the president of a club, one that helps people learn to knit and stuff, and he JUST SO HAPPENS to know how to knit. i think ima go crazy if he joins my club.
right, so my 'twin' is a year younger than me, and when me and our friends grad before her, she'll be totally alone with him, and i feel soo bad. like she's all scared about having to go to prom with him, coz she might not have a date, and he might not have a date, and ask her. plus, he wants to
2006-09-25 13:01:10 · 7 answers · asked by need 2 get a grip 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go to MY senior prom, which means HIS junior prom. and he's really creeping me out. like no joke. he's really scaring me.
how can i tell him that i dont feel that way about him, and that he's really buggin me without really hurting him, coz hes a big softy.
do you think that i need to find my 'twin' a boyfriend before i grad, so that she can hopefully hold on to him her senior year and avoid going with our friend? or does that sound desperate?
2006-09-25 13:02:43 · update #1
Hmmmmm I hope you don't take offense in this, but have you possibly thought of your friend being "gay"? I have a friend who was exactly like you described your friend to be, and I found out not long after we had met that he was gay. Gay men are always affectionate, and are always looking for a hug, or some kind of assurance..... atleast the ones I know of anyways.... So my advise to you is to maybe see if you can sit down with your friend and ask him why he continues to be so clingy, but try to do it in a nice respectable way. You know he may also be the type who needs friends, and the only way he knows how to have friends and to keep friends is to be over bearing, and clingy, and always wanting to pay for things..... I hope I may have helped somewhat.. good luck
2006-09-25 13:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by crazyfool23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-24 23:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 01:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl thank you for answering my q. Now maybe i can help you....
Try making yourself busy with your friends all the time. or tell your friends separately to make themselves busy as well as you.
In other words, when he comes to hang out with you guys, one by one you guys make an excuse to leave, like tutoring or a meeting with a teacher. Or you could say that you have a project with a kid in your class that you have to go meet with to work on the "project". then hide...lol or something. Go somewhere on campus that you know he wouldnt go or look.
Thats all i can think of but i hope i helped somewhat.
Good Luck with that, girl! lol
Allie h
2006-09-25 13:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by hey buddy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
renaming him was your first mistake,when he found out he took it as if you thought he was someboby special.he probabaly got the feeling you took a liking to him.just let him know he's a nice guy but your really not interested in him.ask around and see if theres anybody else who don't have a date and maybe they can set it up for you.don't be desperate and don't give anybody the idea that you are,that can be dangerous .things will work out.good luck pete
2006-09-25 13:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by THE SHADOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very outspoken and clear, but not mean. Otherwise, he'll never get the message.
Sounds like he needs friends though, and you're a very social person. Even though you're not responsible for his social life, maybe you could give him some advise and steer him in the right direction.
2006-09-25 13:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by danaluana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lemme first say thx for answering my q and i think that u should let him down easy like when he comes over to u find someone else near by to chat with
2006-09-25 13:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by junior_morrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋