My boyfriend thinks Im too sexually aggressive, If I want sex, I just grab him or tell him, he tells me it turns him off.
How should I subtly flirt with him to turn him on, as being forward isnt working.
2006-09-25 12:53:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
okay, look, some guys won't admit this but, they like to hunt. if they know they can have a girl whenever they want her, they won't want her anymore. they'll just go after some girl that plays hard to get. that way, when they do get some, they'll be satisfied and think that they had good enough game to win her. i'm not saying that he won't want you anymore or anything like that, but maybe you should try teasing him a little bit first, you know, get him warmed up. he'll be expecting to get some and when he doesn't, he'll be much more satisfied if he makes all the moves and "wins" you over. i don't know why they're like that. i guess it's just one of those many things that they need to feel manly.
2006-09-25 13:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by phatfingaz10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen that is a big turn off for some guys but for others its really not a problem. The double edged sword here is your going to try and change what you do and then he is going to be like I dont like it. Sit down and talk that is the only real way you will find a solution to your little problem ask him what he prefers and doesnt prefer so you know and go from there.
2006-09-25 19:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by bibby6914 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now if you will excuse me , I read the rest of your questions . they are mainly about your boyfriend
He seems like a good guy after all . He is different from you .He has his own personal qualities , but that's what life is about .
Regarding your current question , I would say just treat him nicely .Just be sensitive about it . These things are felt rather than said .
Have a nice life and you both seem like nice people .
2006-09-27 05:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can’t keep the track you should think things...I not saying that you have to dump him, but sex is an important healthy part of relationships, talk to him
2006-09-26 16:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by Propeller Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey may feel like you arent letting be a guy.
2006-09-25 19:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss him and touch him and the he might be turn on
2006-09-25 19:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by scooby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh i dont no. it works for me
2006-09-25 19:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by Billy T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start kissing him gently .. and touch him ... streap for him ...
2006-09-25 19:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋