I have been marriage for 11 years and I left my husband due to mental abuse. I moved and now I found out he move in the same apartment complex. We have children together. I keep asking myself why did he moved there. any suggestion.
2006-09-25 12:47:44 · 14 answers · asked by babymadison61904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is trying to control what you do and keep an eye on you.... be safe
2006-09-25 12:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by oracle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to watch your back. He probably did this just to still try to control you. If he starts his s*** again - get a restraining order.
How is he with the kids? Be sure to file for divorce and note why you left. That way if something happens - he has a big problem!
2006-09-25 19:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Due to a mental problem, no better apartment complex available, for kids to see him more off en or every day ........... or just to kill you someday if his mental condition get worse.
Maybe is some sarcastic - evils black joke.???
2006-09-25 19:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows he's in your head, he's around just to try to get control. He may also want to see the children. But I think he's there for you.
2006-09-25 19:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are right and he is emotionally abusive. He's just continuing the pattern. Don't let it bother you.
Make sure you set rules and make them clear to him. If he can't live within those rules, move.
2006-09-25 21:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a stalker... You might need a restraining order against him, don't know how it works with you having kids together and all. He sounds like a psycho, be careful.
2006-09-25 19:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get a restrainting order on him. looks as he is going to stalk you. you need to get help fast. the mental abuse is one thing,but you never know what else he could do? i hope you get help and take this advice.
tasha
2006-09-25 19:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by tash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's probably trying to get closer to you and the kids. i don't want to scare you but i'd watch out just in case. you never know what he is capable of. watch out for the kids sakes.
2006-09-25 19:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bitch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TO SEE EVERYTHING YOU ARE DOING GO GET A ORDER OF PROTECTION FOR YOURSELF LIKE NOW DON'T PLAY AROUND WITH THIS YOU NEVER KNOW HE MAY SNAP ALWAYS CARRY A CELL PHONE AND INFORM YOUR CLOSET FRIEND/FAMILY MEMBER OF YOUR WHEREABOUTS AND ALWAYS WATCH YOUR BACK AND CARRY MACE AND PEPPER SPRAY
2006-09-25 20:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he moved there to torment you, or to be near the kids.
2006-09-25 19:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋