2006-09-25 12:41:08 · 21 answers · asked by timidlady2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
a one night stand is ok .it doesn't mean your commited to any one person.but both parties have to understand that in the beginning.its just one night to relieve some pressure.i enjoyed it at the time and felt no guilt afterwards.both parties knew what they were doing at the time.most people don't plan it,it just happens.don't let it bother you for you have nothing to be ashamed of or anything to feel guilty about just enjoy it and move on to the next. good luck pete
2006-09-25 12:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by THE SHADOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had more than one more one night stand. At that point in time, I was just trying to find a way to gratify myself. Now at this point in my life, I realize how lucky I am and was to have never gotten pregnant at that point. The point is driven home by the fact that I now have a wonderful daughter with my husband, and how I would never want to have anyone else's child, because my daughter is so beautiful.
2006-09-25 19:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by galec777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have had a couple. I feel that they were learning experiences. I learned a lot about men and a lot about sexual relationships.
I'll admit, I used to feel guilty and used... until I realized that I got as much from it as my partner, if not more.
I don't personally advocate the one night stands. It can be very liberating but it can also be very emotionally confusing.
I do strongly feel that protection should be involved.
2006-09-25 19:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by Elkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, over 30.
Some of them were very enjoyable. If the woman was as lusty as I was, and didn't want a relationship to begin with, there was no guilt or remorse. However, if she was very passive, it was very unpleasant. If she was looking for real love, and I realized this afterward, then I felt remorse and guilt. This happend enough that I stopped having affairs.
2006-09-25 19:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one night stand I ever had was withthe woman I eventually married and am still with after 15 years.
2006-09-25 19:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by Gopherson 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a one night stand. I liked it so much I had several more. now I have to have one day stands. my wife works days.
2006-09-25 19:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
at first i couldn't get over it because i fall too easy. then i started harassing them. but then the bussier my life got, the faster i got over it. but i still regret it everytime i think about it. regret having one night stand and more regrets going after the guy. that was stupid.
you'll eventualy get over it.
2006-09-25 19:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. JSV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a few in my teen years, and honeslty i dont even think about em at all. The day after they happen i always felt pretty good about them.
2006-09-25 19:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by thealternativemind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It was an interesting experience. I think of it as that it "one of life's experiences" for both me and the woman I was with. We were both very willing for an emotional, mental, and sexual fling.............. it was more of a postive experience than a negative one.
I did learn from it.
2006-09-25 19:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by JustPeachy !!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish to have one!
Damn, at 24 and never had a girlfriend,
I'd settle for Martha Stewart!
2006-09-25 19:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋