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What do you do when your home isnt welcoming... Too much negitivity. Do you flat out ask your boyfriend if you can move in with him and his mom for a while. Do you tough it out and take the pain a little longer??? Is there somewhere else to turn?

FYI i have a dog that would have to go with me or back to the rescue he came from for awhile

it's me and my mom, and my father lives on the other side of the country. It is not an option to move in with him. And financially I can't afford to live on my own yet!

Just some adice. thanks!

2006-09-25 12:37:46 · 12 answers · asked by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

I have a great job, and my boyfriend is currently job hunting.

2006-09-25 12:40:43 · update #1

21 Yrs Old

2006-09-25 12:41:20 · update #2

12 answers

depends on the situation if your not happy then find a place if your 21 you should definitly be finding some other place to go,parents are nice and all but when it comes to living with them,i'll pass thanx.good luck

2006-09-25 12:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 0 0

It's difficult to say what you should do when I don't know what kind of problems you're having, but as a general answer I think that you need to talk to your mom about what's bothering you. Let her know how you feel and try to be calm and rational about it. I would try to avoid moving in twith your boyfirend if he lives with his mom. It can get kinda weird, because she will have rules that she will want you to abide by in her home. Maybe you could talk to your boyfirend about getting a place together. If that isn't possible financially, then you need to try to fix what's wrong at home. Turning to someone else won't make the problem better.

2006-09-25 12:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by sexy lady 3 · 0 0

Take it from me, I spent my intense college years and the first couple after only being in relationships. i idea I knew each little thing about love. changed into engaged two times and heartbroken two times. Then my oldest brother informed me to stay unmarried and make sure out who i'm. That advice is a few I choose I had at the same time as i changed into youthful i'd have loved so a lot extra! make sure out what makes you satisfied without an important different earlier you even start up questioning about being with someone!

2016-11-23 21:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would definately not advise you to move im with your b/f that could turn into a can of worms and in a hurry. you never said how old you're. if you not an adult i would consider allowing you to move into my home with me, my wife and daughter, but i do not know how old you're. Maybe you should tough it out and try to get along with mom a little bit better. Sorry this is the best i can do for now.

2006-09-25 13:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0 0

Depends how long you've been with your bf. If is been longer then one year i don't see why you couldn't stay with him for a while. Of course only if you have the attention of getting your own place. If your not...deal with pain a little bit longer and wait it out.

2006-09-25 12:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by dodgergirl 2 · 0 0

Do you have any other friends you could move in with? You should talk to your boyfriend about it first and she what he says then see what his mom says. But if its a bad place to live and it's bad for you get out. ASAP.

2006-09-25 12:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by Freeman 2 · 0 0

Be strong don't go with you bf cause you might be in the same situation at a later time. Make yourself strong from it. Learn who you are and develop from that. Hold your breath and breath a lot. Good Luck.

2006-09-25 12:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 1 0

hi

2006-09-25 12:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ask a therapist for advice!
[ Believe it or not, therapists aren't just for "crazy people"...I should know, that's what I'm studying to be ;) ]

I think you definitely should go and see one... Give him the full details of your situation and I'm sure he'll give you great advice and maybe a solution to your family problems...

2006-09-25 12:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ AnGeL oF cLaRiTy ♥ 5 · 0 0

Get a JOB and then split the rent with your boyfriend.

2006-09-25 12:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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