Hi i am 18 years old my husband is 21 and we got married last month in Vegas a spur of the moment thing that orginally started as a joke.That same night we also managed to concieve a child . We have only known each other 3 months really and the other night we got into a fight at his dorm about the baby he informed me that he wanted to stay married and that we would be moving in with his parents as soon as possible!His very italian parents hate me!because i am not italian i have never done anything too them!I stormed out and walked for about an hour to get to a friends house crying. My friend steve is gay!so i saw no harm in sleeping over at his place in same bed its a one bedroom place the coach doubles as a bed. Two hours later at 1:00 a.m my husband was banging on the door my friend steve went to get the door and my husband saw me in the bed and hit him in the face broke his jaw!
2006-09-25 12:11:04 · 6 answers · asked by Keri O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I keep calling him he wont answer his cell phone should i just go talk to him? I am trying to be the mature one but he wont talk to me!I think i want to try and talk things out now and maybe see how it goes. But i dont really now how to start or have a serious conversation?
2006-09-25 12:13:23 · update #1
I dont live with my husband and rarley sleep at his dorm room.
2006-09-25 12:22:42 · update #2
my husband was calling everyone trying to look for me !My friend rachel gave him the adress and neglected to mention he was gay and not a threat!!
2006-09-25 12:28:18 · update #3
It is obvious he cares about you or he would not have gotten pi$$ed that you where somewhere else... Does he know your friend is gay and is he strictly gay or bisexual? He needs time to cool off, I would suggest telling him that when he is ready to talk ...civially.. that you will be waiting to discuss your future. You helped create this problem because you ran to someone else to discuss the issues at hand instead of going to your HUSBAND first. Take care, hope it all works out for you
2006-09-25 12:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should turn to your mother-in-law and ask her for her help. You are going to have their grandchild and the two of you are too young to know how to handle a marriage and a baby. Ask her to help you to be a good wife and mother. Maybe she or his dad will talk to their son and get him to start taking his responsibilities seriously.
And stop sleeping anywhere else but with your husband. Period. Dont' do that.
2006-09-25 19:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A quick fix isn't having an abortion. I hate it when ignorant people try to get out-- the easy way.
It isn't the child's fault. Make it work. At least try.
2006-09-25 23:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Q. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't call its time to call his parents. Tell them you are carrying their grandchild which can be proven with a paternity test. Its time for him to call.
Is he out of jail yet?
2006-09-25 20:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in his eyes you were cheating,it hurts alot when a husband actually sees his wife in bed with another guy.Your lucky he didnt hit you.
2006-09-25 19:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very tough to explain that one. But, once he is willing to hear you, just stick to the truth, that's all you can do.
2006-09-25 19:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋