Ew, so, I was at the dentist. This old guy sat across from me and just randomly say, "Your dad should get you a bat. That way, you can hit all the guys who bother you. Teach them to stay away from you." The he went on to ask my brother, "Do your boyfriends ever want to meet your sister? She's really pretty!" I was just like... umm... ew!
Oh yeah, this i what I looked like today: http://www.gerardarthurway.myphotoalbum.com
2006-09-25 11:55:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Careful, young lady. You seem to be sending out the wrong vibe. Sure, the guy was out of line for making those comments, but by you not only publicly posting your pics on the web, but also advertising/publicizing them here, it looks like you are not being sufficiently careful. You're too young and naive to realize what you are doing. Your parents should be taking a firmer hand, I fear.
2006-09-25 11:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by andalucia 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the saying "Clothes make the man"... If you want to be treated like a sex object, then by all means, be my guest, but don't complain about it.
If you truly think it's sick, then change how you dress. Try a t-shirt that's not quite so tight, instead of the swimsuit... Oh, yeah, and drop the dippy sex-pot pose.
I'm not excusing his behavior, but "You have no right to complain about that which you tolerate"... Don't give them any excuse to say stuff like that.
A question- how old was "this old guy"? Was he old like senile? or was he simply older than you- over 25?
A note on aging.... As people age (senior citizens, etc), they loose certain abilities- memory, vision, hearing, sense of propriety.... Your situation may just be an older man trying to be complimentary and being unaware that he's crossing the line... Yeah, my 84-yr-old grandpa sometimes comes across that way, and I've known him for 30 yrs, and trust me, he's soooo NOT a pedophile.
2006-09-25 12:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Did the old man know how old you are? You look older than 13 in that photo.
Second, how old is he? If he's grandfatherly, he may have just been trying to be nice.... in a very odd and strange way. Some older folk are like that, and are harmless.
Thirdly, as some stated already, he could be a pervert and you should stay far away from him if he is. Really hard to tell when I want there to gauge his attitude and the way he was at the time. (I have this sixth sense about those things, it's almost like ESPN or something.)
2006-09-25 12:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you may not take a 13 yearold heavily in such circumstances ; laugh it off , say your too youthful to be relationship and you do not prefer an previous guy like me , i'm virtually sufficiently previous to be your father . At 25 , fairly you might have girlfriends closer your own age . notwithstanding fairly and stunning , do not even think of of relationship a 13 yearold lady ; you will basically get your self into difficulty . some youthful ladies are actual Vamps and could lead you on , even to having intercourse with them , that's a criminal offense and could land you in penitentiary . the girl's coronary heart should not be broken in case you assert NO . shouldn't you recognize your maximum suitable chum and their mom and dad . have you ever bought no ethical fibre ?
2016-10-01 08:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by schugmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, well, if you post your pics on the web, that might be a bad move, there are hella pedophiles online these days. Your brother shoulda socked that guy. And listen to his advise, GET A BAT. (or at least a can of pepperspray)
2006-09-25 12:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by imapo0po0head 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That guy should be boiled in oil, or tarred and feathered! Flirting with a 13 year old is disgusting. You should have reported him.
2006-09-25 12:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by jassee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well,hmmm what do you want us to answer, how to get an old guy away from you? well get a bat and hit HIM with it, hes the retard that is hitting on you, be carful, he might be a stalker
2006-09-25 11:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by FredDIEMerCURyLOVer 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ew is right. u should have said u already have a bat and u use it on guys like him.
2006-09-25 12:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by Taryn 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yea there are a lotttt sick people out there. Luckily being a guy I don't find them that often. I would take your pictures off if I were you.
2006-09-25 11:57:26 · answer #9 · answered by yoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
give me a break!!If you want to be treated like a thirteen year old... and have guys your own age hit on you... then dress age appropriate. You are just silly.
2006-09-25 11:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋