Me and my daughter's dad broke up 1 month half ago and he moved in with some girl (a friend he says with benifis) for almost a month and now today he is moving out because he says that girl is becoming crazy with him because she wants a relationship and he does not well during that time he was living there I went threw some much **** I was pregnant from him but had an abortion because I had no support from him he would ignore me and I was turning crazy so I had to do it . I started to go out and have my fun now he is getting jealous and alway interragates me well he said today he is moving out and he wants to come over and talk to me. Im mad because now he wants to come aroound after all that pain he put in me and Im not a second choice every time I called him he would ignore me now he wants to come and talk to me what should I do or say thanks for taking your time in reading this question
2006-09-25 11:45:17 · 17 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would calm down and breathe for a moment. The next thing I would do is talk to him and see what he has to say. After he is done spinning his story, I would tell him its over and move on... but dont begrudge your daughter from seeing her dad... IF she wants to. Move on and find someone who's not going to make you second choice and who is better for you and your daughter. Think about the two of you... family is important, and if he doesnt want to be a part of that, find someone who does and will love you BOTH.
2006-09-25 11:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by Tequila_Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even talk to him.It sounds as if you are still emotionally attached and this will bring that attachment even closer. He got into a rebound relationship and thats what happens when you do this.He should have spent the time away from you to work on himself.He is just jumping around. Let him make his own way in life.
2006-09-25 18:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says??????there's your 1st mistake. All one sided is what this is about. Benifits???that's your 2nd, Do either of you work or are you two of those indigents that live off the system?????Hell he's probably already there. Get ready for another abortion cause if he didn't support you then what the hell makes you think he's going to now?? go look in the mirror see if there's something tatooed across your forehead. If you don't already have it somewhere else. Truth hurts don't it????????????????????//
2006-09-25 18:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by carmella.2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not worth the pain your a much better person than that hes going to keep doing it to you just move on with your life and find some one that appreciates you and loves you for who you are.
2006-09-25 18:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by dihannamtie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like he isnt happy in life and he thought he could be happier with some one else. he wants someone to make him happy and really the only person that wil make him happy is himself.
and the fact that you are happy makes him mad and he wants you back cus he thinks that you will share the happiness. but where was he when you had to be alone and feel like you life was going crazy.
he wants to come in and take your happinesss and then leave when it gets a little hard. he sounds like a jerk and a flake you deserve stubility and safety in your guys arms not worry about if he is gonna stay
good luck
2006-09-25 19:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say -- FORGET HIM. How dare he even suggest talking with you after all he's put you threw. Tell him you have to think about it and give yourself time for other avenues before getting back with him.
He has to prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that he's changed. And I don't think he has. It takes time, experience, and schooling to grow up.
2006-09-25 18:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Hilpar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOO he sounds like he does no know what he wants the grass is greener on the other side he left and that did not work out, so he is going back to what he knows you are a easy solution for him i would tell him where to go you will find someone that loves you and will not treat you bad chin up and be strong
2006-09-25 18:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by moccaebby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take a hike.I know he is your daughters dad,but he is a loser.You are both so much better off without him.Your daughter is number one in your life,remember that when he tries to come crawling back.
2006-09-25 18:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need him - tell him to just keep on walking. And do yourself a favor, and find a better class of man who won't treat you like dirt.
2006-09-25 18:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by luckyaz128 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, thanks but no thanks. Tell him you're holding out for a real, honest, decent man who doesn't shack up with women for sex and use people. Tell him you thought he was a better man than that, but if he's living with women for sex, moving in and out of the house, ignoring the mother of his child, and hurting you, he can take a hike.
2006-09-25 18:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋