Like I said on my profile...I'm sassy sometimes and have a bit of an attitude towards people. I don't like it when people are bothering me when I'm trying to concerate or something like that and I don't like working with people I don't like. My mood changes often and my mom and sister and brothers said they also don't like my attitude sometimes? I mean...I'm a nice person and I care about people but I don't like people getting in my way when I'm trying to do something.
Is that a problem? If it is...I definenilty need to fix that!
2006-09-25 11:43:15 · 29 answers · asked by glam_girl91 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Since you said, "Is it a problem? If yes, I definitely need to fix that" it tells me that you actually checking back with reality, even though you seem to have an attitute :-)
If it starts getting too much and statrs getting into your way of accomplishing things or starts ruining relationship with people that you like and cherish - you will notice and adjust.
2006-09-25 11:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, it sounds like you're a private person who likes to be left alone, except when you decide to let others in. You have strong boundaries and this, in and of itself, is really a good thing.
I'd be more concerned about the suddenness and "hair-trigger" nature of your mood swings. This could be a real problem or simply a transient phase in your adolescent development. It might be best to have a doctor evaluate this if you're really concerned, like maybe your pediatrician or family physician. Please, I'm not saying you need to jump on the phone and make an appointment unless in your heart, you really think that this is a formidable problem or issue that you need help in dealing with.
If this really is who you are, you may want to look at it because when you become old enough to enter the workforce and have to deal with all sorts of diverse personalities, this could be something that gets in your way and limits your performance. A major amount of employment opportunities today involve having solid people interaction skills and this is a significant factor on performance evaluations.
You're certainly not a "bad" person, you're just like all human beings. You have some "rough-edges" that need a little refining. Your self-awareness of this as an issue, if you do indeed decide that this is an issue for you, is half of the battle.
Good luck, and don't beat yourself up over this because you're certainly already looking at it and aware of what's going on.
2006-09-25 12:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as always, there's 2 sides to a story.
So, I really can't answer that for you.
To you, you only get an attitude when you're trying to concentrate or do something.
To everyone else, you might have an attitude at the slightest things.
See? It's a 2-way type of question.
So all I can really say is for you to try to not get an attitude at all, at any time.
Unless you have nicely asked someone to leave you alone a few times, and they keep bothering you.
Then get rude. lol
2006-09-25 11:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jalena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do that too. I mean sometimes it's just annoying when you're doing something and people keep bugging, and the thing about not wanting people you don't like to work with you. Ya, why would you if you don't like them? I don't either. So ya, you don't have an attitude problem, stop worrying. Either that, or I'm a dick too and just don't know it, haha.
2006-09-25 12:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by Raphy Cunt77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mood changes is your personality that you may have to deal with the rest of your life. This may be who you are. There are worst things. People that want to be close to you and in your life need to accept you for who you are.
If there is a part of your personality that is upsetting your life or making you unhappy and you are willing to change this, check on some group behavior modification classes or counseling.
If you have the will power to check your attitude when you might be thought of being rude, it might make your life easier.
2006-09-25 11:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by danaluana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 'attitude' is what's going on inside your head during those quiet moments when no one is talking to you. The way to determine what you'll do when someone does begin to talk to you, is decide in your head how you want to handle that situation. Instead of snapping at that person or being rude to them, decide ahead of time that any breaks in your concentration should be handled with sincerity and care.
2006-09-25 11:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like my grandmother used to say: " there s no excuse for rudeness". If people are bothering you, gently point out to them that you are in the middle of something, and ask to speak with them later. Make sure that you do follow up with them. As far as working with people you don't like, get over that, because you will have to work with people you don't like when you get older and have to work on a job.
2006-09-25 11:54:09 · answer #7 · answered by mischa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you don't like to be botherd, esp. when it's with family members or ppl you just really don't like much. But If you care at all about your reputation or how ppl percieve you, I would try to be a little bit more gracious with ppl. The good thing is that you recognize that you have an attitude, and seem to want to fix it, and that's a really good thing:)
2006-09-25 11:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Couldn't tell ya, glam-girl! All I have to go by is what you've written and a cute avatar.
It may not hurt to heed some input, if you're getting it from multiple sources though. There's attitude and then there's being a real jerk. Good luck with that.
2006-09-25 11:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no, It's a problem for some but not for others. I'd say fix it for those you care about like family and friends, but don't worry about getting angry at strangers or acquaintances who get in your way.
2006-09-25 11:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by tyreanpurple 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋