I love this girl and i talked to her all week to try and get to know her, i got her screen name and msged her last night (sunday) and asked her how her week was, she told me it was great and i asked what she did. "she said she took her boyfriend out, and went out wit her friends". Now i felt realllllllllllllllll lowww. One girl i really liked and could not get out of my mind has a boyfriend. She seemed busy and i signed off. today in class we didnt say a single word but hi.- she didnt brg up a conversation and i didnt brg up nething either. do u girls think i should forget about her or be her friend?> in that case, how do i let her no i just want to be a friend? i dont wanna lose this girl even if she has a boyfriend idc, as long as shes happy with him. ((did i mention she said "he was amazing?"))
what to do. i cried 2 times already and i NEVER cry, i didnt even cry at my grandmaz funeral. -Im sitting around watchin oprah and richard simons and i cant get her out of my mind. i luv her
2006-09-25 11:35:48 · 27 answers · asked by Wu Zi 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
you seem to have expected too much, which I see could be the main reason why you felt so low, (and probably rejected too) and cried. Thank God at least you cried! Most men would just undergo the stage of denial. And they always think that tears make them a little less of a man (which is not true).
Now that you know who she is and who she is with, you have accepted that fact (you said you wanted her to be happy)- that is a sign of maturity. Just continue to be civil to her. We do not know what fate has in store for you.
Good luck
2006-09-25 11:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww poor guy. I think she doesnt really have a boyfriend and she just noticed that you like her and she doesnt feel the same way so she dreamed up a boyfriend to tell you subtly. (i dont mean this in a rude or sarcastic way) If you still want to be her friend, try not to flirt with her while speaking to her in any way. She'll take the hint, and if she doesnt seem to get it, tell her directly how you feel and hope she doesnt get too freaked out. Make sure you reassure her that youre over it and youre not gonna try to break them up or anything. If you still love her after a time, then just be patient and wait for their breakup.
2006-09-25 19:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by imapo0po0head 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you ask this Q in the fashion category?
She has a boyfriend but maybe she doesn't have a true male friend.. Find away to stay around. who knows?! may be something good for you will happen soon.
to overcome the chock for a while you can eat a box of chocolate
good luck Romeo
2006-09-25 18:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by adorable 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...impressing...I think you really LIKE her. I dont think it is LOVE because you havent got to know her, I mean the real her, (inside her feelings)...you didnt even know that she had a boyfriend. Well, I think that you can still talk to her as a friends, just remiend yourself that she has a boyfriend. Be happy, and be more mature.
Good luck!
2006-09-25 18:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I would just be friends with her. You never know down the road what could happen. I married someone I was friends with for a long, long time so in the mean time be friends with other girls as well and you never know what can happen.
Good Luck.
2006-09-25 18:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by poohbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel.There was this guy last year that I really liked and when I found out he was going to the fair with another girl I got so jealous and cried.But I am still good friends with him so don't stop being her friend.and if u wanna talk about it just email.I know it hurts now but you will get over it.-Kayla
2006-09-25 18:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kayla T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend! Who knows- she could brake-up with him and she would need a shoulder to cry on- and that's where you come in! Trust me, I know how you feel when you can't get that special someone out of your head. If (and when- not saying that she will) brakes up with her boyfriend, she will need comforting and someone to be there for her. Who knows- if you wait- you might actually get 2 be her boyfriend!
<3,
Cinderella108
2006-09-25 18:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by Cinderella108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK get over it..... she has a bf so lay off his girl. And you cried 2 time? you watched Oprah and Richard Simmons. you sound like you your obsessed with her. I still cant find a reason why you were watching Oprah. maybe she didnt really think about getting with you because maybe she thought u were gay??? who know.... (1 point till level 2!)
2006-09-25 18:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by Pinecrapple 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just act like it never happened, act like she never told u about her boyfriend, be her friend and talk to her and wait untill she breaks up with her boyfriend. alot of relationships dont last.
ps: not trying to be mean but she might not like you if she said that, find out from some of her friends or other people you konw if she really has a boyfriend. if she does do that^^ if not, leave her. theres more then one girl out there
2006-09-25 18:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulatioms you met your first player!! Now cry, eat some ben and jerry's and get on ith it. You're a lovely guy, get a good girl who will love you back.
2006-09-25 18:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋