i have always wanted to say "i love you " to a very special person but i can never bring myself to do it...why..i mean i do love him and he tells me all the time but i just cant bring myself to do so ??...
2006-09-25 11:34:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is more than just say it. I love You.
Supposed be very special beautiful word - but become like "Hi".
For a long time I didn't see somebody acting like you. I thought people like you don't exist any more.
Make me happy and keep the word to and for the very special the most beautiful person in your life.
Thank you for being.
2006-09-25 11:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't use the excuse that you have always wanted to say i love you but you don't know how.the words mean nothing unless it comes from your heart.anytbody can say it but how many of them really are sincere about it.some just say it to get what they want or maybe thats what the other person wants to hear.thats called passifying their mind.don't let your brain do the thinking for you,when it comes to love think with your heart for the heart never lies.your brain will tell you things that aren't true.your true emotions lie deep in your heart.your just not ready yet or your not truely in love yet.when you finnally find your true love you won't even have to think about it it will just come out.your inner emotions will take over for you,it's just a matter of time it will happen and theres no feeling in the world like it.good luck. pete
2006-09-25 11:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by THE SHADOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not write him a letter and tell him how you feel. You'll feel a whole lot better when you do. Tell him it's hard for you to say it in person but that you truly do love him too. Sometimes we are in situations where the words don't come up as easy for us so don't be too hard on yourself. Try practicing in the mirror if you want to get good at saying it.
2006-09-25 11:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by sfss50 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem telling someone, that I truly love, "I love you". It is an important term of endearment. If I did not love a person I would not be able to say that. You say you love him so you should be able to express that to him in words.
Some people have trouble with terms of endearment. These same people often can not compliment others or express words of encouragement. Usually, but not always, the people who have trouble doing this never had anyone say these things to them when they were children.
Occasionally, a person just can not say words, out loud, that they consider to be intimate words...this may be your problem.
2006-09-25 11:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sister Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is an emotion, not a commitment. Saying "I love you" is a way to verbally express the emotion. Plenty of people love eachother but can not stay together for whatever incompatible reason.
If you say"I love you" then you are expressing how you feel in the moment which, of course, is the most important time in our lives.
2006-09-25 11:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its that ur afraid of making urself vulnerable 2 people and u feel that u can't bring urself 2 say that 2 him b/c of the fear of putting urself out there. u can tell him that ur having problems with expressing ur feelings 2 him and maybe he'll understand. Hopefully it works out 4 u.
2006-09-25 11:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I commend you for that. Saying I love you is crossing a line that you can never come back from. You should never say it if you don't mean it. People say it way to often to way to many people so that it's real meaning has been corrupted. Whatever it means to you, save it till you really mean it.
2006-09-25 11:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by cathcoug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not something you grew up saying, it's hard at first. But the more times you say it, the easier it gets! People NEED to hear it, too. Keep trying....you'll be comfy with it in no time.
2006-09-25 11:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you afraid that saying you love him might lead to a commitment you are not ready for? Make sure you know what you are saying before you say it.
2006-09-25 11:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by jassee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say it because it makes her feel better
I'm a man so I don't understand emotions
It's not the truth - because I don't know what 'love' is except a word
Don't say it if you don't want to.
No one is forcing you too.
FP
2006-09-25 11:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋