Husbands,Do you care?

Question

Do you care if your wife ganed 20 or 30 ponds since you been maried. I dont .she is still as sexy as the day I met her. I wish she would belive me.

Answer 1

20 or 30? Mine is twice her weight and often over mine.

Answer 2

Hi she knows that you love her it is just that she is not feeling happy with her self like me, my husband and i have been together for 8 years and been married for 4 of them i was a size 10 when i meet him and after having my 2 boys i am now a size 12/14 i know he still loves me but i never let him see me without clothes in the light i feel that if my body makes me feel sick then what must he think i so know how she feels the best you can do is just keep telling her that you think that she is the best looking woman you have ever seen she will tell you that you are wrong but she will feel happy inside

I hope i could give you a little insight into the mind of us woman lol i hope it goes well

Answer 3

Seems as though all the women have a problem with weight issues. I heard that barbie is even trying to lose a few pounds.To gain that weight is normal,as it is a natural part of the aging process.Unfortunately women don't belive their husbands.If a guy told her the same thing,she would be in second heaven.You can't win.

Answer 4

I'm having the same problem with my wife.She gained about 30 lbs and is alway talking about how fat she is.She use to weight 100 lbs.Now she's 130lbs.I keep telling her how good she looks but she just says "Yeah right".I truely think that she looks alot better with aittle weight on her.She just filled out in all the right places.She never believes me.I'm here to tell you that It's a no win battle.

Answer 5

My wife did and it was because of having our children. She is the most beautiful woman to me, because of that. To make such a sacrifice to have our children. Even if your wife didn't have children to gain the weight, who cares, it's not like she did it on purpose, we all tend to gain weight due to our busy lives.

I too have a difficult time getting her to understand, but I tell her I love her, and I tell her she is cute and she is beautiful as much as I can and that no one else can compare to her and I mean that.

Keep up the good work as a Husband and a real Man. I am glad to hear there are Men out there like myself. You are a great Husband to your Wife. You can tell her I said that.

I wish you well.

Answer 6

You are such a sweetie!

I do believe it (comming from the ladies point of view).

My boyfriend tells me it doesn't bother him at all. I know it doesn't because he treats me like I'm just as sexy as the day we met.

But I do think since I've wanted to drop some (my decision, he never said a word. I want to so I can be more heart healthy) he's been excited about it.

Answer 7

I wouldnt care if she did gain an extra 20 lbs. We have been married for 12 years and she has gained maybe 5 and I have gained about 60. I couldnt blame her!!

Answer 8

She has a self-image problem.
It matters not what you say, she is going to believe what her mind tells her. All you can do is just try and prove your love every day, in every way.

I've been there, and it is not fun! It can drive a guy away when their wife become so convinced of their ugliness, and anything you do becomes more evidence of your distaste for her.
Man, it's crazy! Lots of luck!

Answer 9

That is so sweet. I wish all men felt that way about their wives. Too bad you don't have a way to teach all the men of the world that weight doesn't really matter if you love the person.

Answer 10

You are so wonderful for saying that! My husband tells me the same thing all the time, but it is hard to believe.