This kinda bothers me. I'm a career-oriented person. I spend most of my time in the office. My friends told me that this is the reason why I still don't have a boyriend until now. I admit, I am busy most of the time but this is not the reason why I can't get a bf. Reason is, I just don't get attracted with men whom I met.
At first, it wasn't really a problem but eventually, I found myself wasting time to think about it. My parents are worried and have been asking me why i still dont get myself involved with any relationships. I told them I haven't found the right one yet. I admit, it's a nice pressure though...
Is there something wrong with me? Why can't i get myself a bf?! Im 23, do you think that I should get one?!
2006-09-25 11:17:00 · 5 answers · asked by Eve25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take your time. If having a relationship is not a priority for you right now then don't worry about it! 23 is still young and you have plenty of time to find that special "one".
If it bothers you, try to get out into the dating scene. Go out on dates even if you aren't particularly interested in the guy. You may end up liking someone you never thought you would find yourself atracted to...
Good luck and take your time!
2006-09-25 11:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by melspags6 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you at all. You are 23 years old. Stick with your career for now, safeguard your future. Attraction is a personal thing. You just havent met the right person yet. What one person finds attractive, another person might not and vice versa. Im sure if you socialised more you would find a boyfriend. But dont bow to pressures. Finally i think you should get a boyfriend if this would make you happy and if you meet the right man. Dont just settle. One day your priorities may change and thats when you are ready for a man. Dont go searching. That doesnt work!
2006-09-25 18:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that your not giving yourself a decent amount of time to get to know someone.instant attraction doesn't always work.. give the men aand yourself a chance to know on another. i think your looking for love at first site. usually love at first site is just a physical attraction.don't judge a book by it's cover.take your time when the right man comes along you and he will both know it.get out of the office once in awhile and get out there and have fun and meet new people.you might be surprized,it could be someone you already met but you didn't give it a chance .theres a possibility that he's been standing right in front or your noze and you haven't realized it yet.just give each person a chance. good luck to you.smile and get out there. pete
2006-09-25 18:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by THE SHADOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the rush ... you have a career to build and you are only 23.
2006-09-25 18:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should. your finished school you have a good career. so it is time to build a future with someone.
2006-09-25 18:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by step 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋