I am a young sister mash-allah and my intendent and I set our date of marriage for the eid. However we have decided the sunah-the-betta, so we asked about getting married in the month of Ramadan. Some said yes we would get more blessings and some said to wait intill after, We have discovered that waiting is bringing us more fitnah. So can you give us some advise on what we should do inshallah, and may Allah reward all of you Amin!
2006-09-25 11:05:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anisah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get married when you want to. The day doesn't make the day, it's the people that come to the celebration
2006-09-25 11:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by SpankyTClown 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
everybody's life is a big examination that comes into being from small quizes, and you are asking about one now! The matter is how you see it, then solving is easy! Ramadan is Mubarak month and everythin made in this month should be favorable.
I wish great patience from Allah for you, sister!
2006-09-25 18:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest waiting. only because it will be difficult for you guys not to have...sex...during the day time anyway...and ramadan is supposed to be the month of resisting temptation! which is one of the reason we restrain from eating, drinking, using bad language, or engaging in cohabitation! so take this as a test from allah and wait until after ramadan. inshallah khair, and mubruk!
2006-09-25 18:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by ElBee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well nothing wrong in it..if you get married on the first day of Ramadan or when Ramadan ends thereafter two days later, both are Good,the first chance you missed ;now you have one alternate left..think about it.Well are you looking for or counting on blessing.whenever wedding happens there is always a float of blessings.Inshaallah..do the bismillaha e rehman..
2006-09-25 18:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it makes no difference when u marry as long as u like each other.
still there is no point to hurry up and one can always wait for auspicios day as per the belief.
2006-09-26 02:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u marry tommorw or marry after seven years things dont change...about getting more blessings in ramadam ...woow any other holy month where by humans can get over more things apart from ramadan and stuff...listen i believe its us who make thigs as they show nothing is special just how we make it
2006-09-25 18:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by Vinny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead. This is an appropriate time. Wish you all the best.
2006-09-25 21:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by Truth ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after ramadan
2006-09-25 18:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better that you did not marry (inshallah) at all and avoid creating more insurgents.
2006-09-25 18:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by HokieFan 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think therefore I am sister
2006-09-25 18:08:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋