My brother has a crush on this girl, and she is one of my best friends, and he really likes her, and I think she likes him, but he's gonna buy her this really expensive ring, and what if she doesnt like him? How can he get her attention?
2006-09-25 10:41:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
He should not buy a ring for someone that he doesnt know really likes him back.
2006-09-25 10:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Wite Out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, has your brother ever gone out with your friend?
What you should do: Ask your friend what she thinks of your brother. Don't be too specific; don't scare her either (hint: watch the eyes). Start insulting your brother (when you and she are in your room, alone) and see her reaction (make sure your brother knows what you will say...I don't want to be the cause of a family feud...). If at the first insult, she looks confused or taken aback, she might be interested in dating him.
What your brother should do: Don't hit it off with buying a "really expensive ring". I don't know her and don't mean to judge, but after that, the expectations for gifts are really high. If he really wants to spend money on jewelry for her, not a ring. Maybe a necklace. Just nothing diamond. Not when just starting off.
2006-09-25 17:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your her friends so you should just ask her if she likes your brother, and just tell her to be honest. Just make sure she knows your not going to fall out with her, if she says she isn't interested. If she doesn't like him I really don't think he can make her. It doesn't work that way. My brother use to like one of my friends and she wasn't interested. If I'm honest I was a bit glad as I was worried how our friendship would be affected if they had got together. What would happen if they split up and it was a bad one. I'd have felt torn, one was my best friend the other my brother. If he really likes her all he can do is ask her out and she will either say yes or no.
2006-09-25 17:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by LOULOU37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not good for him to make such a bold move until they are on clear terms with each other. Buying such an expensive present would only make her feel uncomfortable and possibly indebted and resentful.
It would be better to get her attention with a nice card or a small, inexpensive gift that connects to something she is interested in; a hobby or project she might have going. It would show that he is interested in who she is as a person and would be the first step in putting their relationship on a new level.
2006-09-25 17:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by danaluana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have your brother talk to your friend and ask her out. Then see what she says. He should buy the ring when and if they have a relationship. Then if she doesn't like him or whatever then he would spend all that money for nothing.
2006-09-25 17:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, tell him to settle down. He should ask her to a movie first, maybe even dinner or a school sporting event..... If he still insists on the ring, let him buy it - but make him wait to give it to her. There should be a 4 date minimum before expensive gifts enter the equation.
2006-09-25 17:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by oimiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just said yourself that you really think that the girls likes him, so then if he gives her the ring she will not like him???? Tell yur bro to go on a few dates with her, so as to get to know her and familiarize with her. Then if it works out good, he can give her the big expensive ring.
2006-09-25 17:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by olde finnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont buy a ring unless youre already inlove and getting engaged! Dont spend big money be4 u know shes interested. If she likes u she wont need expensive gifts to be impressed
2006-09-25 17:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by DefenderOfTheMeek22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing he should do is go spend time with her, he shouldnt give her a ring just to get her attention,if she likes him she'll say yes when he ask ,if not save the ring- but I must it is really nice that he thought of her so greatly -tell him to SLOW DOWN COWBOY!-lol-edi
2006-09-25 17:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by edisquest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't buy her a ring...and say to ya mate "hhmm I think my brother likes you ya know"
2006-09-25 17:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by xx_lush_xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋