Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 years. iam 16 and so is he. he wants to have sex, but i dont want anything to go wrong and i dont want to get Pregnant. we have done alot of things together, the only thing we have not done is sex. well we did anal. I i want to have sex but i am scard plz help me
2006-09-25 10:24:10 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you don't want to get pregnant,don't do it. Tell him how you feel about this.If he can't accept what you have 2 say about this matter, he is truly not interested in you.Your first time should be a beautiful experience, not a scared one. Just by you stating ur scared-- lets me know that you know this is not the right thing 2 do. When that time happens it should be where both parties want 2, not just 1. You are still young. Respect and value your body, It's your temple. Your only 16. Wait until your a little older. This is how young ladies get reps at an early age. Boys want 2 tell the world they "got some " from u. Then your name is mud in your area and being labeled a whore. Trust me, Kids cost-- this is why we teach kids 2 wait.
2006-09-26 02:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by BK1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stand up for yourself , it's your body . Don't let him talk you into anything that you are not ready for . I really think the anal thing was way out of line too. That shows me all he cares about is his gratifacation not you . I doubt if that was fun for you , and besides it will do bad damage to your body later in life . I know it does , I allowed it and now I bleed sometimes when I go to the bathroom , I may have to have surgery . Yes I am trying to scare you , before you do damage to yourself just because you don't want to say no to him !!!
2006-09-25 12:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you are WAY too young to even think about doing that....tell him that...sex is for married ppl...not boyfriends and girlfriends..
2006-09-25 10:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋