I have loaned my brother $, and I don't mind because he's my brother quite a few times. I even do errands for him because he is busy at times, and I pay for his things. The thing is he has a job and refuses to pay you back whether it's a loan or if you did an errand for him. He calls me cheap, stingy, tightwad, hard up for $.
If I ever need an errand done, God help, he NEVER would help me, and said if I ever needed help in the future for any need, don't come to his door because it will slam shut.
I was raised to help my family in any way I can. I know it's blood related, but I don't like this ill treatment, and it's sad to say if he says it like it is, why bother helping, and feeling ill about it.
I also am Catholic so I believe in helping, and being good about it.
Does anyone else have this problem? What would you do?
2006-09-25 10:22:56 · 3 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well whats the saying do unto others as they do unto you ? time to stop helping your brother , he has a job.. let him pay his own way for a while , if you want to buy him dinner or pay for a movie ticket that's fine but how can you save money for your self if he's always borrowing and never paying back your his brother not his bank !!and the bank would demand payment !!don't let yourself be put down by his selfishness on refusing to pay you back your not the bad guy !! i had this problem with my sister and finally said OK no more , I have to save my money and she won't pay a dime back , we get along fine but she was upset at first ...oh well she got over it
2006-09-25 10:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok if you also believe in being taken advantage of keep it up other wise realize he is taking you for a ride . Stop being used .
2006-09-25 12:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would absolutely STOP helping him in any way and not live with him.
2006-09-25 16:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋