he is not ready to leave me.but i don't want to tolerate him anymore as he use abusing words for me and always keep eye on me.he don't trust me. i m fed up now.
2006-09-25 10:15:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
'Trust' is lost everything is lost. Loose him now, be bold and bring a trustworthyness winthin yourself. GOD will bless you with his trust!
2006-09-25 12:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by jaspreet m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very difficult situation you are in. I know because I was in that situation a few months ago. You have to start slowly. Stop being affectionate and be honest let him know that your relationship has run its course. You have to engrave it in his mind. Don't be mean and explain it clearly and outline your reasons. Let him know you don't want to be in a relationship where someone abuses you verbally. Thats where physical abuse starts too, once he has crossed the line where he abuses you verbally, the next step is physical. Your relationship is going bad and you need to tell him that. Keep your ground and don't go back or giv in just because he's nice to you. He will think you just broke up with him because you were angry. When you are arguing don't bring up breaking up, wait until you are both cooled off and tell him that you have realized you don't want to go thru that anymore. I hope I have helped at least a lil bit. I know things are easier said than done. Best of luck
2006-09-25 10:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by joanna1_84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you need to leave it shouldnt matter he insnt ready to leave you if you wait for that to happen it might never happen. you need to do whats best for you and what makes you happy no one deserves to live with any kind of abuse weather it be pysical emonital or mental you dont need to put up with that. do whats best for you not for him if you are ready to be done with that is the time for you to go not later. cause between now and then something realy bad could happend that you cant change and then later on youll think i could have prevented that or changed that way back then, besides it doesnt help your relationsip now if you feel the way you do. cause sooner or later it comes out and the other person can sesne something isnt right.
2006-09-25 10:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by andrea c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There u go !!!!!
You are very well set on your decision, so if you have the attitude to move on why don't you?
Girl..... you tell him straight out exactly what bothers you about him and dump him. Don't let anthing stop you.....because you know u deserve better so thats enough motivation to get you were you want to go. So be yourself and stand up for yourself!!!
one thing i can say is what ever you decide it has to be enough for him to leave if not you might send a mix signal and you are going to have him on your back instead off your back so be carefull.
2006-09-25 10:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by missme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 23:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by daw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if he's ready. You just need to start moving on with your life without him like he doesn't matter. Treat him like he's just another guy off the street. You don't owe him or any other guy you meet anything.
2006-09-25 10:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Bargain Girl of Yore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all do not just ignore him, but tell him the truth, that this is not working out and that you need to go your separate ways, then do so with no more contact. take it from a guy, if you contact him once he will try to read something into it.
2006-09-25 10:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a relationship there should always be trust and respect. u can change your #, be calm dont u be abusive ignore him and keep yourself busy and just let it go.
2006-09-25 11:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend is not ready to leave can you go.do what you can to break it off, it does matter what he want ,you must decide to do what is best for you.you deserve better
2006-09-25 10:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him seriously you are leaving him. Don't answer his calls or let him in.
2006-09-25 16:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋