I am not good with these things but id like all of your help. Please I need your help!!!!!!. Thank You.
2006-09-25 10:04:23 · 10 answers · asked by Small Below :( 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
let them know that u are there for them and that there loved one is in a better place now with no more suffering or pain
2006-09-25 10:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually have the same predicament. Until recently. If you've ever experienced a loss, you would know that there are no words to heal the pain. There is only time. But, you can tell your friend, or whomever, that the person that died changed or was an influence on your life somehow (if they were) because one of the most important things that greiving loved ones goes through is, that they wish so many more people knew how great this person was. Part of my comfort when my brother died 8 years ago was that we donated his organ & tissue. We received a letter stating that his eyes went to help 2 people see again. To me, that meant that he was still here, seeing the world, and that part of him helped someone even if they didn't know him.
2006-09-25 17:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask them if there is anything that you can do to help ease the situation. If there is nothing, then only be there as a comfort. Sometimes in these situations, being that person that runs to the airport, grocery store, etc, is the best thing for the moment. Other times its about being a good listener. Lastly, with people coming in and out; its always helpful to help keep the place clean for the family.
2006-09-25 17:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing that I would do is to let them know that you are sorry that they lost a loved one. Second I would offer them as much support as they need to get over this and thrid I would ask if there was anything that I can do or that they need to help out.
2006-09-25 17:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by Speedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't anything to say just let them know you are there for them and support them through the grieving process.
2006-09-25 17:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by raiderphan79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i'm not good with things like thie either. i'm sure more than anything, just let them know your thier for them and if they need anything tell them not to hesitate to ask.
2006-09-25 17:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let them know you are there for them if they need to talk.
2006-09-25 17:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support, support and more support. Actions speak louder than words.
2006-09-25 17:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't much you can say, just be there for them.
2006-09-25 17:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by exodus64_1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm terribly sorry for your loss. That's about all you should say.
2006-09-25 17:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by Spirit-X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋