Seriously, would you be ok with him being Gay or Bisexual as long as he tells you upfront. Why or Why not?
2006-09-25 10:02:35 · 21 answers · asked by Brad B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'll still be friends but I won't be going out with him
2006-09-25 10:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he came out as gay, obviously I would be his "friend" cause he doesn't have any sexual attraction to women what so ever...
If he came out as bisexual, of course I would accept him. Just because someone is bi, doesn't mean they are going to do anything that has two legs... they can be monogomous just like any other person. As long as the dude was upfront and honest, I don't see what the problem would be.
2006-09-25 10:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell do I care? If he's gay, I would'nt think twice, unless he was one of those really annoying gay guys like the hairdresser/clothes fitting type. Then i'd have to kick his *** just once. If he was by I might have to think because it would kind of suck if he decided he was bi but he never cheated and we stayed together forever and he never got to **** a guy in the ***. That would definitley suck. I'd probably let him cheat a few times or something we could work out. But if you would break up with somebody because you found out about or they changed their sexual orientation, then you can go live a lonely prejudice life.
2006-09-25 10:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can "accept" him, but I would not "date" him. Let's say your relationship gets serious, you even marry. What happens if 5, 10, 15 even 1 year into the marriage he wants to fool around with men again? It just isn't smart.
I am not sure your age. But if you are old enough to consider really serious relationships, I would not waste your time with a relationship that could never really go anywhere.
2006-09-25 10:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by Beth M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If upfront okay but wouldn't date him if he was gay. Bi maybe but he would have to only with me or we agree to open relationship.
2006-09-25 10:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still accept him, only not as my boyfriend. While same-sex relationships are fine for those who want them, it's not something I want to be involved with.....there are too many health risks involved. Not to mention the fact that just the mere thought of 2 guys (or girls) getting it on grosses me out tremendously.
2006-09-25 10:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO because a gay man will always have the need to be with another man when you're not around! I wouldn't go there. Too many diseases. Plus, what about your kids if you have them having to deal with a gay father!
2006-09-25 10:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by Candy O 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a friend only, if he were gay, but I would still date him if he were bisexual and still wanted to date me.
2006-09-25 10:05:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Because its hard enough to compete with all the other women and now I have to compete with the guys as well. That means everytime we went somewhere, everyone in the room would be open prey for him.
2006-09-25 10:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by GEE-GEE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think i would still be in a relationship with him i like being with one person alone dont want to share but i would still accept him as a person and be friends. that is what he chooses for his life not my deccison to make.
2006-09-25 10:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by andrea c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't marry him,but i would still have a very sexual relationship with him,i am sure i would ask him to bring his friend over seeing as i love to get it on with 2 men at a time. but as you can see i am very different then most women,so your girlfriend might not stay around if you tell her that.
2006-09-25 10:20:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋