2006-09-25 09:58:55 · 26 answers · asked by NICKI H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i do not feel this is a problem. the women i am with is 12 years older than i and i would rather be with an older woman. not as many head games.
2006-09-25 10:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think there was nothing wrong with it, but once you hit a certain age everything changes. You know what you want and you cant force that on someone so much younger than you. Maybe a few years younger, but not 9. There is not only an age gap there is a maturity and view level. He will not treat the older woman the way she will want to be or even expect to be treated. How can he- he is not even close to there yet. Best of luck to you.
2006-09-25 18:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by BeautyMark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is wrong. As long as both are over the legal age. If the younger male is mature enough for the older woman, and everything is good between the two, it's fine.
2006-09-25 17:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a big deal because you have to look at the maturity level of the younger man. Some younger guys are more mature minded than guys who are older.
2006-09-25 17:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by Skittles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9-1/2 years difference one way or the other is no big thing... that being said....I wouldn't suggest a 28 yr old girl getting involved with a 18 yr old boy... But if he is in his upper 20's or more... then it should be ok....totally ok. The last thing you want is immaturity in your life.... Unless it's all about the sex...but then you don't need validation from us to do that..... but if it's relationship you want... make sure he's on the same page... and isn't looking for a surrogate mom.
2006-09-25 17:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by john s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a big deal with age at all for male to be younger or female.
My parents are 15 years off, my relationship is 8-9 years off from age.
If you love someone that much age isnt a problem.
.........ok if its like 20 and over you got serious problems lol.
2006-09-25 17:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by katiy n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's 40 and he's 31? Yea that sounds ok. She's 29 and he's 20? Mmmm probably not.... but what the heck do i know... I do like the experience of an older woman brings to the relationship....
2006-09-25 17:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both consenting adults (over 18 years), it's no big deal to most people. Some unintelligible people may think - How disgraceful. If you love each other, many times "age is just a number." Forget it and go on with your life.
2006-09-25 17:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by Hilpar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a 28 year old woman... I didn't see the problem! If older gents can date younger girls, why can't older women date younger men? It's sexy in my opinion!
2006-09-25 17:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by youdontneedtoknowme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's over 30, it's not that big of a deal. If he's not at least 30...there often tends to be a maturity and commitment issues....If you want a "fling", or a "booty call" go for it...Anything more than that isn't likely to work out well...Good luck!
2006-09-25 17:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by lil_rowdy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋