How much is too, much? I am very happy with my sex life and my partner but, when he is out of town, I tend to spend alot of 'qualtiy' time with myself... I mean like twenty times a day.. Is this normal..
2006-09-25 09:40:05 · 48 answers · asked by Thin White Duke 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
wow, you must really miss your boyfriend......Is he really that good.....or are you just that in love with your body......lol anyway.....i don't think anything is wrong with it.......
2006-09-25 09:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends,
If you're not feeling comfortable with it then I suppose it could be a problem. Maybe you're not reaching your -erm- point so it takes a little more work (ie 20 times)?
Could be that you're feeling a little disconnected from your partner so you blow off steam in a natural way.
Young guys worry about this too if it's any consolation. I figure when I was 13 and things starting working properly I would "befriend" myself at least five or six times a day. Partly in a combination of knowing that it was my new personal trick and the pleasure it gave.
Now being much older, the occassional **** (even with my wife around) is needed as I do enjoy it as a pleasure of self. Again going back to the original thoughts of personal trick/pleasure.
Nothing wrong with self pleasure, it just ends up being a when and where thing. If you are doing it in the privacy of your own place, fill your boots (not literally). If in a car in rush hour, then you have a problem because you've misunderstood the where and when thing.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-25 09:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by SpankyTClown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
twenty times a day is too much. Calm down, u'll get addicted. What hapens if u lost ur man (heavens forbid), will u masturbate forever? Is this the lifestyle u want to end up with till u leave this world? Try getting some help, especially for ur case.
2006-09-25 09:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by lebanese_gentleman2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is something that is affecting your daily life, than it is a problem. Like if you can't get through a work day or school day without doing it. Or you feel like you can't go another minute without it, then you need some help with it. If you can get through the day and then wait, then I dont see the problem with it. It is only when it is affecting a daily routine.
2006-09-25 10:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehh... like twenty times a day may be a little much to me. To lots of people that might not be much. It's not like it is hurting your body, so really I don't really think it is too much. It just depends on person to person I guess.
2006-09-25 09:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by italianbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone varies in this area .. for women, as far as I know .. you can masturbate as much as you care to . Is it normal to focus so much of your time and effort in this one area of your life ? Only you can decide that .. but it does sound like a LOT of time to spend doing any one thing. Good Luck ! :)
2006-09-25 09:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that when it becomes pain full, raw skin, or bleeding would be a good indicator of too much. Other then that there is nothing wrong with it and how meny times you do.
2006-09-25 09:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by HokieFan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 times a day? Wow! Sounds a little too much...make sure you save some for your man when he gets back.
2006-09-25 09:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i tend to do it even when he is in town people say he doesnt please me but i feel like he does some people are just different there is no such thing as too much and believe it or not i started masturbating at 5 years old
2006-09-25 09:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by want2BaMOMMY!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it, but 20 times a day?
You're obsessed!
Dang girl!
lol
But, no harm done.
If it's something you like to do, go for it!
lol
2006-09-25 10:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by Jalena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 times a day?...Damn girl..I guess its normal you just have a high sex drive...i would rather you do that, then just going out fcukn 20people a day...You must have a rabbit toy? You go girl!
2006-09-25 09:43:42 · answer #11 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋