why do men....?

Question

why is it when your out with your girlfriend you look at another ? and when you get caught you try to play it off or straight lie and say you did'nt.

Answer 1

Men are pigs!! That is a fact. You need to start looking at other men. Turn abouts, fair play.

Answer 2

We just tend to look at things be it another beautiful woman, a baby in a stroller, a businessman on a cellphone, a pan handler asking for hand outs, a guy picking his nose, a girl wearing funny underwear that obviously shows. We'll use that information to make small talk. Like, "hey did you see that chick with that underwear? What was she thinking?" or "Hmm , could that guy pick a better place to pick his nose?". We try to be observant while were out. But if a girl passes you and the boyfriend has to turn around to take another look then he's an ******.

Answer 3

Men are wired to be excited visually -- in order to be interested sexually, we need to look at something. Which means that if a good-looking woman walks by, we notice. It's a hardwired instinct and it's not going to change anytime soon, so there's no use complaining about it. If anything, all we can do is be polite enough to not stare.

As to playing it off, that's because we have enough sense to know that women don't like it when they catch us looking at other women. Lying about it is uncool, though. Many (possibly most) of us could stand to be more considerate about it, but you ladies need to understand that it's not going to stop happening -- any more than you'll stop getting your heads turned when a good-looking man says the right things to you (as women are wired to be turned on verbally).

Answer 4

My wife punches me in the head when I stare at people. I can't help it I don't mean any harm. It's not always an attraction thing either, they are just peculiar. Consider the man of science, an impartial observer as it were. Then you have to consider he already knows what you look like and here is something new. Doesn't mean he is going to act on it.

Answer 5

It's a natural thing. It doesn't mean he would rather be with the woman you caught him looking at, such as a good looking waitress, hostess, or even a bank teller. It just means he saw a good looking woman that just happened to catch his eye. He'll go home and tell his boys that they gotta check her out, that's it!

Answer 6

Because men notice all women, regardless of if they are dating them or not. Some girlfriends overreact and take issue with the harmless glances, maybe you're one of those types and your boyfriend knows that.

Answer 7

most men are dogs; but it is natural to be attracted to the opposite sex, next time you catch him, let him know don't let it build up it will be ammo for an argument or you do the same he is doing to you, make a comment on some guy that is on the street or club

Answer 8

because you're not with that person you were looking at, and you knows where you next peace of tussy are coming from. so you better lie are be in the dog house.on the other hand the person you were looking at could be at home giving it up to her man!!!!

Answer 9

I never lie to a woman...if she asks, I'll tell her that I was looking at that womans backside or some other feature...mainly though its the smile.

Answer 10

for me it a habit because I am deaf and I have use my eyes to see everything and my wife at frist though but really i am not. and I now started saying honey look at the that woman ummm I am glad she not my woman or what ever woman is. my wife really like to say to me you know honey you don't have to tell me every time you see something. Ohh, I though she is hearing and she tells me that she trust me alot. and ohh ok... my wife said it ok to look at them but can't touch and anything else. smiling.

there a difference between this and that.