What can we do?

Question

My husband and I are both 21 we have been married for5 years now and i cant get pregnant. We have intercourse about 3 times a day everyday and we dont use any protection is ther anything i can take OTC to become more fertile?

by the way i have been checked and i am okay, he wont go get checked because he doesnt think its him. i eat right and exercise regularly, we have only really been trying for about a year and we have tried evrything, thanx for all your great answers.

Answer 1

go get a book called Taking Charge of your fertility by Toni Weschler
This book will help you with all of your menstrual and conception questions. It’s for all women - not just women trying to conceive. It covers everything from temperature to mucus checking, etc.. It will help you understand your body and all the myths about it. It will help you time when you are ovulating and the best times to conceive – or not! It tells you how to figure out your cycle and what to expect. My husband and I tried for a year to conceive and nothing happened. The first month I used the book we conceived right away. Now I am due Feb 2. It's about knowing your body and knowing when you are fertile or not. You can pick and choose what you do with your info. Good luck and don't listen the all the myths!

Answer 2

See a doctor. You are only fertile for 1-3 days a month, and you can get a fertility predicto,but if you are doing it 3x a day everyday, you should of already gotten pregnant. Especially considering how young you are. You both need to be examined, because it could be his problem or yours. But that is definietly not normal.

Answer 3

Holy crap! You were married at 16?????
Well I heard that once every other day is the way, not 3 times a day. And it may not be you, it could be your husband.
If you really have been trying for over a year then you should consult your physician. He/She can lead you in the right direction.

Answer 4

i'm along with the other girl, you may want to go and see a docter just to see if there is some type of medicine to become more fertile than what you may be. BUT there might be something wrong with your husband. Good luck with child bearing!

Answer 5

if you have been trying for 5 yrs without protection then you would have been considered infertile 4 yrs ago. see a gynecologist to try and figure out why you are not getting pregnant. could be either you don't ovulate, your tubes could be blocked or there could be a problem with his sperm. there are other causes also but those are the big 3.

Answer 6

i assume youve tried exercising and eating healthy too...because it helps to get pregnant if you treat your body like it is pregnant (a way to trick your body into thinking its pregnant so you can concieve better) Well if youve done that then try seeing a doctor, it could be you or him. Theres nothing OTC you can take to help. you can try getting ovulation tests to find out the best time to concieve. plus having sex three times a day is overdoing it. try the site below

Answer 7

wow, three times a day and you are married, my gf cut me down to about five times a week now, if im lucky, and that is only after going out for one year. Id say that you are probably not going to get knocked up if you havent already. some people would pay good money for your luck

Answer 8

i ve seen this thing on line that u can order its like a pacage that helps u figure out when its the right time and how to do it another way could be to try to have a test tube baby

Answer 9

I owuld say go to a dr. for help. Good Luck getting pregnant

Answer 10

Go to the doctor and see if there's anything wrong with either of you. If there is, you may have to just accept it and adopt.