When I´m writting, It seems to me easier to touch people´s heart...?

Question

Why is it more difficult to touch someone´s heart when I´m talking?
What could be wrong w/ me?

Answer 1

I am like that. I can write beautifully but when I speak it all comes out messed up! I just express myself better on paper! I have always been that way and I am okay with that. There are lots of times that I write my husband letters because I know that I can reach him that way! I am sure to get my point across! Whereas talking I get jumbled up and forget half of what I want to say. This quality actually comes in handy during fights. I am able to put my thoughts and feelings down instead of yelling and screaming. He seems to take what I have to say better on paper in these instances! I don't think it means something is wrong with me. I just think people have things that they are good at and not to good at! Mine is words! Writing works for me!

Answer 2

I'm the same way - Have you ever heard the song by Gloria Estefan - but the words get in the way? I know it seems a bit outdated, but I still keep personal stationery and I enjoy writing letters to people. Sometimes I even write out a draft before I compose my letter. When my husband and I were dating, I wrote him a lot of letters, I just found it difficult to say things face to face.

There's nothing wrong with you. So many people just blurt things out, without realizing the consequences and effects of what they are saying. People like us are more sensitive - we choose our words carefully. We always say what we mean and mean what we say - so we'll never just say anything casually.

Answer 3

You express yourself through written words much better than verbally. A lot of times when writing, you're not directly speaking to them, or they're not watching over you. It's much easier to write it all down than to be standing face to face and let your heart out. I'm the same way lol.

Answer 4

Wow you have a real talent and have no idea . Most people don't express love very well in any way . Actually most women are better than guys are . I love it when my man writes me love letters . It is a very sentimental , wonderful thing to do . Keep up the good work and believe me you will improve in showing your feelings in other ways down the line !

Answer 5

are you not confident of the words you speak? or is it easier to plan them out on paper to get the point across? when i get nervous i studder slightly. it is annoying. and people often ask "WHAT?"

nothing is wrong with you, maybe when you talk to them they see your face, not your words.

Answer 6

Nothing, when you're writing if you make a mistake nobody knows 'cause you erase it. When you're talking you're on the spot and can't change what you've said.