This is a horrible situation...and the church let you out of your marriage because one party became "incapasitated.."...NOW WHY DO PEOPLE IN GENERAL JUDGE YOU...I mean my gosh i saw what my girlfriend had to go through and she never CAUSED THE ACCIDENT...and she is left with the children to raise...CHURCH PEOPLE should not judge others...THAT SITUATION IS NO MARRIAGE ANYMORE!!! tell me what you think....only people that have been through SIMILAR circumstances...please!!! thank you!!! He now is in a home...IT BECAME TOO DIFFICULT TO KEEP HIM AT THEIR HOME...as you can see why>>>
2006-09-25 09:24:25 · 7 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not about what other people think it's about what's right for you. You should not or do not have to explain yourself to anyone. They do not know what it is like to take care of someone who is not at least 90% healthy. I pray that your girlfriend is doing okay and tell her not to worry about everyone else.
2006-09-25 09:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and your wrong. It's not church people who you promised your life and vows to. It was your spouse and god. (and I am not a religious person) You have no right to abandon your spouse in there time of need. You gave your word and should honor it.
Watched over and stood by my wife for 6 years while breast cancer took over, doctors hacked her up, and finally I buried her. Not one second did I ever consider abandoning her. I gave my word to her the day I married. I am proud to say I had the integrety to stand by my promise.
Please re-examine your promise. It was and is your promise and says everything about you. Worry not about what a church or friend may think. Worry about the thought you'll live with for the rest of your life knowing you abandoned your promise and love when it meant the most.
2006-09-25 09:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to calm yourself down. I thought that it was just me, but after reading other comments to you, honey, no one can understand what you are talking about. Maybe if you repost, you will get the answer that you are looking for. It is always difficult to be in a relationship, but just coming out of one can be a mindblowing numbing process. Take your time in finding what you are looking to say, and maybe then we can all help a little bit more. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-09-25 09:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by pamalamadingdong_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you are going through a difficult time, but can't help because you seem really confused and your thoughts are all over the place....
2006-09-25 09:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not the church is one of the most Freaked up places. That's why I don't go.
2006-09-25 09:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by i have a taste for waffles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OPINIONS ARE LIKE A$$ HOLES EVERYONE HAS ONE.
2006-09-25 09:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont get it??
2006-09-25 09:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋