and I am talking to someone as well and its not that serious well he only knew this girl for a month and he already lives with her and when we see eachother he always tells me who you talking to who you with and he tells me that he has feelings for me but really if he did why would he still be living with that girl he says he is going to move out today but why today he should of done it 1 day or 2 days ago, or even invite me to dinner to discuss us but no what do you think?
2006-09-25 09:03:42 · 9 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, he is doing it when the time allowed for it, who cares about 1 or 2 days, either you want him or not? you sound pretty demanding, maybe this is what chased him away the first time, learn to be a little more lenient and see things his way too!
2006-09-25 09:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by helper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me he wants his cake and to eat it to....pretty much he wants u and the other girl....my ex he use to do that too say oh i still love you while he was living with his girlfriend and i didnt pay no attention to it i was over him,...if ur not over him u need to tell him that and see how he feels if he really wants to be with u he would of left that girl like 3 days ago...if i were u id just move on cuz say u guys do get together and the gf he has right now is not able to let or or he is not so he is going to be seeing the both of you guys........
2006-09-25 16:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by queenbee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is only doing what you allow him to do. You are probably still sleeping with him as well and you know he is sleeping with his "roommate". Look at the reason you two broke up in the first place and ask yourself if that problem is resolved then see if you two need to be together.
2006-09-25 16:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by Tosha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh why waste your time! you both don't know what either of you want- you are not taking life seriously enough! this is parenting after all! just be considerate of of making a bunch of changes to your daughter's life- and then stick by them- your child is the one that will suffer if not! Good luck, and God Bless!
2006-09-25 16:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you know what is going on and he is just telling you because not to feel his guilt and what he did to you. So he's no good. Move on to next one if he's serious.
2006-09-25 16:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is still finding his own new direction in life, and you are correct to notice he hasn't made any real effort towards you.
actually it's none of his business who you are talking to or who you are seeing, he already took himself out of your life so any feelings he has for you I can't believe it's anything more than friendly concern.
2006-09-25 16:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say you, him and her should get together in a hot tub with a few martinis and work things out amongst all three of you. It could get a bit kinky and you might even like it.
2006-09-25 16:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by guysmilie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe he needs you to be on the side in case his other flings don't work out , of course you sound like you are doing the same thing
2006-09-25 16:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and eat it to, if he didn't care for her, do really think he would be there. I tell him I'm sorry I have someone I really care for but thanks for asking., but what I do is none of your business.
2006-09-25 16:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by Nicki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋