My sister broke me some terrible news about my hubby and another common married girlfriend that we know from 6 years now. Anyway I believe they kissed and made up about 2 years ago. I thought they ended that by saying no more encounters.
Although my sister told me she witnessed something like 4 months ago between them. One evening they all went out and came back home from a party. The house was full of lots of people but still this girl ended up going in the room where my hub was and she asked him to hug her. my hub kept asking the woman if the guy at the caberet they all went to embarassed her with the sex questions. The woman was like no it was okay. My hub again asked her if the dancer asked her too many questions. And again my hub asked her if the dancer got her embarassed? Then my sister told him to hug her. He hugged her with one hand as if he was nervous or tensed. Then she told him to close the door for a moment. He told her he can't do this anymore and he backed off. then
2006-09-25 09:02:14 · 6 answers · asked by toralm1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
again he looked at her and on the floor and slowly said again that he can't do this anymore. So then the woman and my hub stared for a minute. And he left with his hands in his pocket. I would think that is a breakup or end. However my sister says she saw them two the next morning. The woman was going home and my hub had just woken up. As my hub and woman were hugging and saying bye, my hubby hugged her like anything. he hugged her for so long so long that even the woman pushed him a little and asked what he was doing, but he did not let go of her. He kept hugging her in silence with 3 people watching like my sister. Why did he hug her for so long and in that sort of silence, persistence, and closeness? The woman looked upset cause of him saying no to her the night before. Was this his way of saying sorry to her you guys think??
2006-09-25 09:02:51 · update #1
The issue here is not what he did. It's if you two can overcome this obstacle in your marriage. As much as your sister can just be worried about you, it's none of her business what happens in your relationship. Talk to your husband. See a counsellor. Do what it takes to resolve this and move on.
2006-09-25 09:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by cyber_music 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that even the most stupid guy would do anything in front of his sister in law. In fact he probably did it so there was a witness. There is no way to determine any ones motive based on this. Maybe you are asking the wrong people.
2006-09-25 16:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your husband must be a little short on brains to do this in front of your sister. And then, why was he out with her and then again the next morning, where were you? Something is not right here. He should not be putting himself in those situations anyway.
2006-09-25 16:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by brokenheartsyndrome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, sister, I don't think that hug was an apology. I'm no expert in body launguage, but based on the above statements, I'm thinking your hubby knows he shouldn't be with this woman, but that doesn't mean he doesn't want to. Seek marriage counseling, QUICKLY!!
2006-09-25 16:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by REDLAKEDOG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to you husband and quite taking all this info from others that may have a motive
2006-09-25 16:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to strangers and your sister about it and talk to your husband - in marriage counseling.
2006-09-25 16:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋