Im christian and I love him very much but he already has a wife and I think I need more time to decide if I am willing to change my lifestyle so drastically.
2006-09-25 08:59:44 · 22 answers · asked by Blaque Inque 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please forget about it for today. Tomorrow morning open yahoo questions and read out loud your question as if was someone else's question. Does it sound OK ??, what do you think of the question??, does it make sense??
Remember and never forget,
The only think we really have in life is, what we are.
Best wishes, don´t do anything foolish that you will regret
2006-09-25 09:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by adsomx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is married and not planning to divorce his first wife, then in many places you won't actually be married. You would be his mistress, nothing more. That is something many women raised in cultures that still support mulitple wives often have difficulty with. If, as a Christian, you firnly believe that a man or woman should only have one life partner, then this relationship is not going to give you what you desire. Be honest with your friend about your feelings...your misgivings, what is important to you and why you feel conflicted. In a marriage, one partner should not have to give up everything they believe in for the other person. If he is unwilling to respect your ideals or compromise his own, then there is no hope for a marriage.
2006-09-25 09:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry did you just say HE ALREADY HAS A WIFE?
OK you have not asked a question, do you want to know what we think?
Personally I think if you are a Christian then you can not marry this man. Not because he is Muslim, though being equally yoked is important, but because HE IS MARRIED!!!
But since you just told us and did not actually ask for advice then I am not sure what it is you want.
Go to the bible and pray this is a pretty clearly mapped out in the bible.
I have dated, and been engaged to a Muslim, he is still one of my best friends but we could not make the religion thing work as I am a Christian not just in name.
2006-09-25 09:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by Queen Fromage 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-23 21:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a wife already? Isn't this a no brainer for you as a Christian? You don't want to marry a Muslim man. He will force you to change religion and you will have to do it. This is not a good move. Don't deny your faith. One day you will have to stand before God and give an account for your life. As a Christian you know that Jesus is the way the truth and the life. No one comes to God but through Him. If you deny Jesus, you will spend eternity without God. Don't do it. There is too much at stake.
2006-09-25 09:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by Tatochka 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ask yourself if you are OK with the fact that he already has a wife!! there is nothing wrong with being courted by a muslim guy, you just have to decide if you would be willing to give up everything that you are used to, just to be married to this guy...cos your not only marrying him, you will be marrying his first wife, and all of his family
2006-09-25 09:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by Rugby_Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you willing to share your loved one with another? I found a muslim who was against multiple marriages and so can you, you are worth more than that! I have more to say after reading some responses, If this man truelly loves you, you will not be forced into changing religions, I am still catholic and my husband is muslim, muslims believe in the same God we do, only a different prophet, you must have more in common and not just worry of relgion. Also, i am the boss in my house, not him, I tell him what to do, not vice versa! Also, to even be in USA this muslim had to be fingerprinted and had to send his police report to usa immigration, so not all muslims are violent!
2006-09-25 09:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by helper 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please don't do it to yourself. If you are a Christian it is going to be very hard for you to get accustomed to that life. How will you feel when he starts dating and brings in a third wife? Are you ready not to pray to Allah during your cycle because you are considered filthy? Forget about him for a moment. Read up on the Muslim religion and see if this is a religion you can live with. It is very male dominant and you need to see if you are comfortable with that.
2006-09-25 09:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by NICOLE J 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You should only marry someone you are truly in love with and willing to comit the rest of your life to. Don't marry someone just because they ask you. And don't marry someone with a wife...no matter what religion they are.
2006-09-25 09:04:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You said he's your "muslim friend", so hes just a friend but your thinking of marrying him. And you might as well say goodbye to being a christian, chances are he'll make you convert.
2006-09-25 09:02:30 · answer #10 · answered by gq1412@sbcglobal.net 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋