How do you deal with someone who hurt you terribly but you inevitably run into on occassion?
2006-09-25 08:52:55 · 24 answers · asked by K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What if the person was a friend and has an alcohol problem...you still care for the person?
2006-09-25 09:02:10 · update #1
save your energy for someone you like! Preparing yourself isn't real at heart, just know you could care less what they think, what they say, don't take it with you! Oh and one more thing You Are Fabulous!!!! remember that!! And you are loved so smile and enjoy your day stress free, good luck and big hugs
2006-09-25 08:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get there address or phone number and approach them (in person or by phone) when they least expect (late at night, friday evening, on there birthday, etc) and rip them a new asshole. 98% of the perps will start crying and compleetly change there attitude even towards others.
Prepare a small script first, then make them wish they knew Osama and had a place to hide.
2006-09-25 16:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by The King 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself that you are a better person, and they must have a sad, pathetic existence to have hurt you like that. Just knowing and feeling that you are superior will help you get by. Think about what a better person you are w/o this negative person in your life. You can do it, I know.
2006-09-25 15:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile at them. Say hello. Ask how they are. Then keep on moving. Remember the whole "never let them see you sweat" and "kill them with kindness thing?" Be the bigger person and you will feel much better. Trust me, if they know they hurt you, it's harder for them to face you than for you to face them if they have any conscience at all.
2006-09-25 15:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by ncmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them. If you have to deal with them on a professional level but just let it be on that level. Hi bye and and whenever ist work related.
2006-09-25 15:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Mello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore em
2006-09-25 16:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this person is the one who will have the problem not you. Make it easy for yourself and move on with your life.
Best wishes Annette
2006-09-25 15:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and be nice, that hurts worst than if you act like you
really cared.
2006-09-25 15:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold you head high so they know that you are okay and do not make eye contact...totally ignore them so they know that they do not bother you and can no longer hurt you
2006-09-25 15:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I treat them like I would a mental case, or small spoiled child. Don't take what they say personally, and they will see that they can't effect you.
2006-09-25 15:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋