Hi,you see i have this boyfriend and we have been together about 2-3 mounths and at first he was sweet and nice then later on in the relatshionship.he started being rude like saying *****" and having Agressive attuide,he liked hurting him self like cutting wise and drinking til he got sick,and i would tell him that i cared n things but he said i shouldnt care and that i sounded like his mother then he would go to girls houses and stay over night"friends wise, and i would ask him what he did and he said nothing just talked,but i dontknow what to do im so cunfussed" if you could give me some adive that be Great!
2006-09-25 08:23:09 · 6 answers · asked by just_a_dreamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You really don't need advice on this.It's pretty simple. Let him go. He's being verbally abusive which is usually followed by physical abuse. If a bf calls me names that you can't spell out on Yahoo Answers, he's definitely gone. Time to move on ya think?
2006-09-25 08:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by stormywthr64 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Advice? Get some gumption...he's revealed a pattern of destructive behavior. Let him be and get out of it before you end up trying to take care of a baby in a man's body. It'll never happen for change unless he does it himself.
Best be moving on girl.
2006-09-25 15:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still with him? He's obviously not worth your while! If he's spending the night at other girls' houses, drinking, cutting and who knows what else, you need to get out of this realtionship before it gets any worse!
RUN!
2006-09-25 15:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lacking Daisies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only hurting your self by being with him. he is aggressive plus he drinks. not a good combination. If he chose to go to a friends house especially a girl and not stay with you than he is messing with her. he doesn't want authority and he doesn't want to be asked questions concerning what he does. you don't need him and it will get worse . get out before maybe you get physically hurt.If he doesn't want to confide in you then you don't need him.
2006-09-25 15:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So simple. send him on his way. He prob didnt let you see his real side early on as he wanted to impress you. If you feel like this after 3 months just think you will feel after its being going on for 6 months or a year.
2006-09-25 15:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ollie J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I don't think that you are with the right person right now. I know it's hard to break up (Trust me, I JUST broke up with someone) but it sounds like he is not the "one". If you feel that he is, then keep trying to help him. But, you are not in a real relationship if you can't trust his words because trust is the number one thing in a relationship. Do what your heart says, good luck!
2006-09-25 15:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋