so God bless, i found out in time. i didn't call it off, i just don't go around her anymore. it was drugs and other men. i will always love her, and i'd rather remember her for the person she acted like, around me. i don't want to see her anymore. her cousin tells me;" if she opens her mouth she is lying". boy, have i been the fool, do i work too much, where have i been, not where she's been, obviously. i am so bewildered, i am weirded out to the max. no more relationships for me. what do i do with this yellow diamond from santa fe, new mexico? it has no setting, as i was going to let her choose.
not to sound gay, but right now i am crying and shaking, i figure i should have known, somehow, some clue. and no, not one notion.
God is good, but where is true love residing these days???
2006-09-25 08:19:06 · 13 answers · asked by lee f 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry to hear about you and your ex. Its not a reason to give up on relationships forever. You just need time to heal. THis is not your fault and dont blame yourself for not knowing. You trusted someone who betrayed you. IT happens more in life than it should but what can you do? You can only control YOURSELF. She made her bed and must lie in it. It is NOT gay to be emotional when your betrayed so you go ahead and cry your eyes out...and when your done, dust yourself off and know that ALL woman are not like that and you will one day find a real woman who will be all that you had hoped and desired. G'luck!
2006-09-25 08:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These are the harsh lessons that come with being more observant with your partner. I asked a girl to marry me once and she just said no and dissapeared from ym life. Didn't even take the time to lie to me why. She was just gone. For whatever reason, she had been seeing other people. IT wasn't until later on that after the dust had settled that I realized that the truth was in my face the whole time. But in the heat of those moments, "passion etc". We become blind always expecting he best and even to the point of lying to ourselves about the intentions of our partners. The point you should really consider is not give up in realtionships all together. But it is absolutly crucial to learn what you did wrong, what you did right and apply it to the next relationship. Get back on the saddle if you know what I mean. I know how you feel its tough. If you need time to breath fine. But don't get discouraged. Take it all in from a logical prespective, "was there signs that you pretended not to see?" if so what where they? This is a time for hard reflection if you don't all youremotions all the loss would have been for nothing. Keep your head up everyday that you wake up will get better I promise. Take care.
2006-09-25 08:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to here what happen. You deserve much better. Time will heal all wounds. Just don't think of it as a complete loss you did learn something from it. Yes woman can be evil but not all women. So don't hold grudges or it will get worse for you. Go out with some friends and try to get over this. It's the best thing you can do..go out and do the things you want to do that you enjoy. Also take as much time as you want to recover from this. Another woman don't need to be a rebound. Good luck and God bless!
2006-09-25 08:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, get up and get out. You were duped, but that does not mean that you are a fool. Ever hear the saying, "Love is Blind?" Well, now you know first hand what that means. You were blind to the things she was doing and what was going on. Thank God you found out in time. Keep the diamond, you may have a good use for it later or sell it on Ebay. There is a good woman out there and you will meet her, but let this one go and get away from her fast.
2006-09-25 08:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
many times a monogamous individual, no count if bi-sexual or heterosexual or gay, needs marriage to a million individual. Your female buddy or quickly to go away female buddy, is going by some style of identity disaster, and likewise has little or no faith in herself as a woman. quickly i think of she's tormented by various themes, identity, vanity, self-appreciate and sexual identity. till she straightens out her very own coronary heart, her suggestions, and her destiny plans; you will inevitably be harm, used and abandoned by ability of her. i'm sorry she might love you, yet might you fairly be enjoyed by ability of a woman who's effective in herself, and her decision to stay truthful to you, her guy; or a woman who's considering a gay marriage with yet another woman, yet does not additionally be attentive to if that would do it for her. She won't additionally be bi-sexual. yet despite that is, she actually has no longer concluded which you or every person is going to have her coronary heart for a protracted time. meaning, she may well be a sturdy time and all; yet she's no longer likely to be sticking around long.
2016-10-17 23:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know ur pain, it might different from ur situation mine but its kinda same pain. dont say no more relationship for you, theres always somebody that meant for you maybe not in this moment in time but still the right one will come. dont closed your door coz u've been hurt, time will heal your pain. just believe on the saying there is one really meant for every single person just hold on it and it will come.. gud lack and get some fun to divert ur attention and helps u forget what happen, go out with ur freinds or anything that can make u busy, dont stay at home it will drive u crazy and thinks of things that can only makes u feel the pain..
2006-09-25 08:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by Maria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry for your loss. Believe me when I say us girls are good at hiding things. It may not have anything at all to do with how you were to her, or how much you worked. So please try not to blame yourself. I would personally hold on to the diamond and decide what to do later, you don't want to make any rash decisions right now while you're hurt and upset.
2006-09-25 08:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by tk_9702 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep the ring in a safe place for your future wife. It hurts now but in time you will get over it...Have faith, true love does exist but it takes time to find the "right one"...Aren't you glad you found out she was no good instead of marrying her and have your life ruined? Good luck to you.
2006-09-25 08:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bro,slang the ring-take the money-go to vegas-blow all the money do something crazy u never done before-and have a good time.Trust me you will feel a 100% better,leave that **** in the past,take it like a man.NO EXCUSES everybody will understand if u go crazy for a little while-keep it on the positive!
2006-09-25 08:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm hurt for you I know how you feel disapointed and horrified. I hope you do find someone who know and understands the being that you are but for now take time for yourself. Good Luck
2006-09-25 08:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by MIA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋