My little girl (going on 4 years old) likes to dress up nice for day care (dresses and skirts with nice shoes). I get a lot of "hand-me-downs" from my sister's daughter and buy from 2nd hand stores - but also buy new things for her. Ironically, she could be classified as a "tom boy" because she is so rough at play. Her friends in her class are usually dressed more casual - in pants, blue jeans, t-shirts, etc. What do you think?
2006-09-25 08:17:22 · 13 answers · asked by TML ♥'er 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
All young children like the "make believe to dress up like Mummy". As long as you don't take it beyond the point of dressing her up to be one of those miniature versions of adults with full makeup and all that, because I don't agree with that idea. Put out a selection of choices of clothes ready on the bed for her to select from, including something "casual". Then let her select which outfit she wants to wear. Make sure she's not dressing up under your influence though, and let her form her own identity as much as possible. Also don't buy those "fashion outfits" such as mini-skirts or high-heeled shoes (which can damage the growth of her feet) which are mini-versions of what teen girls would wear, and she shouldn't need to wear a bra either (also inappropriate). Maybe set the example by dressing down yourself in jeans and t-shirt so she sees Mummy wear clothes like her friends wear and she'll want to follow example soon enough. Hope this helps.
2006-09-25 08:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
children go through natural stages of exploration and curiousty dealing with every aspect of life. In all honesty she might have seen someone dressed up on a television show and thought it looked fun. Or maybe a teacher or other adult she values highly in her life gave her a compliment about dressing nicely at school one day and it is a way to garner the same attention. It could also be just a simple way to stand out. Its hard to tell what your daughter might be thinking...just ask her why she likes to dress up at school. If she thinks its fun and its not hurting anyone then why not? a child with a sense or class isn't a horrible thing :)
If it turns into a cry for attention somehow then maybe she is lacking attention in some aspect of her life.
Children like to use their imaginations and lives to create experiences. Let her go for it. If it becomes a problem speak with her teacher to find out more...otherwise let her have fun :)
2006-09-25 15:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your daughter is in a way like I was when I was a kid. I remember being a cross between a girly girl and a tom boy. I liked girly clothes and makeup, yet I played like the boys. I wouldn't worry about it so long as she's not ruining some really nice clothes. As she gets older, her horizons will be broader than other children.
2006-09-25 15:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 4 yr old loves to dress up too. She goes all out, even accessorizes with jewelery and hair clips! Of course none of it is expensive, but she loves to feel made-up. There is nothing wrong with it, she is just being a girl. She loves shoes and purses too. Its part of her wanting to stand out in a crowd and be recognized as an individual. Let her dress up, as long as she is comfortable in what she wears and looks like. At least she cares about her appearance.
2006-09-25 15:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by trebobnagrom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter is probably just trying to express herself through dress. Little kids act a lot of things out in order to understand the world around them. It might be a phase, or you might just have a girl who likes to look nice. I say, if no harm comes of it, go ahead.
2006-09-25 15:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is the same way!! I tell people her favorite thing is to get in a foofoo dress and sit in a pile of dirt and hunt bugs!! Just let her do it, she'll outgrow it eventually! :) Just invest in LOTS of Spray 'n Wash
2006-09-25 15:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by chelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's normal... would it necessarily be appropriate... no. choosing what to wear has power in itself and it can be fun... at 4 kids have a self image too... just don't get her into brands and labels please! LOL my son is almost 3 and he loves dressing up.. in costumes that is! he likes to think he can be a bug or something he sees on tv and use his imagination... i also think he likes the attention he gets =)
2006-09-25 15:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by mindfulmomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, why would you ask that? I dressed up ALL the time when I was 4. Its cute
2006-09-25 15:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by amber_lauree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as she doesn't dress up in a way that is inappropriate for her age (say, sexualised) and she doesn't feel under pressure to adopt any style of dress, i don't see a problem with that. what is appropriate for your little girl is what she feels good and confident in. :-)
2006-09-25 15:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by nerdyhermione 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is happy wearing typically girly clothing, crack-on!! There is no need to stereo-type at this age. Much better to let them show their creative and indepentant side. Let's keep them innocent as long as possible.
2006-09-25 15:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋