said that he doesn't think you guys have a connection, but he is willing to work on it, but then ignores you?
2006-09-25 08:09:43 · 27 answers · asked by rever_a_vous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try to discuss the connection issue, if that fails than leave him and find someone you have a connection with.
2006-09-25 08:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then I suggest you MAKE him hear you. Tell him exactly how you feel and if he doesn't listen, then he wasn't worth it the first place. Don't let some prick get in your way, honestly, it's just one guy. Obviously he wasn't that cool or that close to you if he didn't think that you guys had a connections. I think you should just move on and find someone else. I doubt he's the one for you, so I think you should keep looking and not let him get in your way. :]
2006-09-25 08:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you guys been together? It sounds like he wants to hold on to you until he can find someone better. I would ask him why he's ignoring me if he wants to work on making a connection. If he really wants to work on it, he needs to put forth an effort.
2006-09-25 08:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by stormywthr64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think that he's too lazy to work on your relationship. Too many fish in the sea. Unless you have a long time invested in this relationship, I might move on and find someone who will have a better connection to you.
2006-09-25 08:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not worth it - if there is no connection by both parties, than why waste the time. You will be the one getting hurt in the end.
2006-09-25 08:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by Aseret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is ignoring you he must not be very interested. I say tell him to get lost and move on with your life. There are plenty more guys out there.
2006-09-25 08:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's craziness. If you're having these problems early on, even before marriage, don't think it's going to get any better.
It's time for you to find Mr. Right and this guy "ain't it."
2006-09-25 08:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by janisko 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very sad... give him about a month to connect... if still nothing after a month, then I'd move on.
2006-09-25 08:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by ☆skyblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have 2 words for him:
Buh-Bye!
You don't have a connect and he ignores you. What more do you need to know??? Buh-Bye!
2006-09-25 08:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd move on. If he says he wants to work it out and then ignores you, he's probably not serious.
2006-09-25 08:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋