Many married men are not satisfied with their sex life. They want it better but they also want the innocent "lady" in the public eye. I am not sure these two lives can exist at the same time. It would seem to create anxiety.
2006-09-25 08:09:32 · 11 answers · asked by Doug C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It exists! believe me...
2006-09-25 08:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When I was a young man, high school, that kind of thing mattered to me. At that time most young, white guys really don't have that much confidence. And to know that other guy, someone you probably know, it was a small high school, could weigh heavily on a young guy's mind. With age came wisdom. I no longer concern myself with things that don't really matter. And who she had sex with before she even knew me, really doesn't matter. But having married a woman that was a virgin when we began dating, had I to do it all over, I think would go with a woman that had more than just a little experience. I know she'd probably be a whole lot more fun in the sack. The ex-wife was a trooper and tried most things, but in the end, she wasn't quite the sexual being I hoped she'd turn out to be.
2016-03-18 01:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me that kind of women exist. I am one. It means that if you met me out on the street you would never guess what i am like in the bedroom. Guys love a woman that is adventurous in the bedroom but doesn't want the world to know it.
2006-09-25 08:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by cascade_waterfall04 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No onew even has a clue what a freak I am (except my husband) that's what it means. And no anxiety is involved. It's kind of a fun game to play. Kind of like a Catholic school girl all prim and proper but a tigress in the bedroom.
2006-09-25 11:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
because u should be a woman in the street and a whore inthe bedroom don't broadcast ur nastiness keep it under wraps for ur man
2006-09-25 08:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means act like a lady in public and be a freak in the bedroom
2006-09-25 13:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
it's possible, BUT the man has to respect the woman...and the woman has to be free and trusting enough to let go of her inhibitions for her husband. i think in a healthy relationship, that's how it SHOULD be; people are either teaching their daughters to be gold diggers, or to be extremely chaste. why can't we teach women to be strong and smart and Ladylike, and yet her sexuality at home is her business? =T i think most women were so pushed down sexually, treated as only good for sex, that they have tried to overcome that by trying to be as "equal" as men in terms of having many sexual partners, etc. that's not a good thing, as are men who do the same thing. i think we need to start focusing on teaching men to be MEN: strong, smart, confident, healthy, and TRUSTWORTHY; and women to be WOMEN: strong, smart, confident, healthy, and RESPECTABLE.
sigh...we've got a long way to go, but we all know what is Healthy, Happy and Positive. we just need to continue seeking it, and teaching our children to do the same. :)
2006-09-25 08:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nah, a woman can be very exciting in bed, and just be calm outside the bed, or the shower, or in front of the fireplace. Women who enjoy sex and can help their man enjoy sex don't necessarily have to be raunchy in all aspects of their life.
2006-09-25 08:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by jboatright57 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, I have met a couple in my life. Men want a lady on the street and a freak in the bed
2006-09-25 08:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh trust me it works! Basically he wants to take you out and have people think that he is with a bright respectable beautifull woman yet he wants you to really want him and to wow him in private.
2006-09-25 08:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
because it feels so good in the bed
2006-09-25 08:15:12 · answer #11 · answered by tipang 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋