So I'm 21, and live in Las Vegas, I'm not some huge partier, although i do go out a lot. I hardley drink so I can be the DD, and I'm a pretty fun person. I dont go out to look for guys at all i just go out to hang out with my friends. But now I'm to the point i really want to have a good boyfriend, obviously things will never work out with my x, and I'm done waiting and trying. So i know not to go out and look for a guy, when its right one will come to me, but how long do you really have to wait?
2006-09-25 08:06:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hover ever long it does
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2006-09-25 08:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by god0fgod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call it "waiting"- I would call it living your life. It's not like you're sitting in your house all day waiting for a guy. Get out there and live. Do what you love. Join clubs. Travel. Take classes. Go do things you like doing and you might meet someone. Or, you might not. But at least you'll be having a fun, interesting, full life. Not only that, the guys you think are BF material now might look pretty shallow and boring, once you fill your own life with fun, interesting adventures. Focus on YOU, not finding HIM- you'll be a much better person if you do... and attract a better quality man.
2006-09-25 08:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when the right guy comes along then it's the right time. It could be a couple of days or it could be a couple of years. I went through 8 years of bad relationships till I found the right man. When you are looking too hard the right guy never comes around. Just go with the flow and the right guy for you will fall into your arms.
2006-09-25 08:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by Goldie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ever said you had to wait? Go on out there and be seen! Have fun! Men are attracted to confident women. When you are seen in a positive light (i.e. having a genuinely good time), your attraction is stronger.
Do you like to read? Go to a book store/coffee shop, like Barnes & Nobles, and relax with a good book. Or do something else you really like. That's where you usually find like-minded people.
Enjoy.
2006-09-25 08:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by niteowl716 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i know is that eventually the right one will come, and please do all guys a favor and don't copmare them to your ex- or think to yourself that your ex was this or that better than the new one. treat a new relationship "new" don't base your future on your past, just learn from it... And if you see it as waiting it will make your time seem longer just relax and meet and enjoy... Don't try moving to fast cause then you will fail!
2006-09-25 08:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by my3rdeye008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about 10 min
2006-09-25 08:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by hill bill y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no time limit. You sometimes need to take matters into your own hands. Just make sure it's what you really want.
2006-09-25 08:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by vlg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait, go find him. Not at casino's or bars, they are T&A magnets. Find something else you like to do and you will probably find him there.
2006-09-25 08:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by Merlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not going to go out & look for him??!! ok so while you are W8ing in your ivory tower how you going to know he's there? why make him do all the running? you go & look. how long do you W8? when you've W8ed long enough what you going to do?
2006-09-25 08:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by garry.mullen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you look for someone special you never find them. one day you will meet someone when you least expect it and the adventure starts [or just email me] good luck
2006-09-25 08:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by johnny boy rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant put a time on those things 'who's for you ,wont pass you '
2006-09-25 08:12:36 · answer #11 · answered by MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋