.....is it considered "cheating" to "the man"??? Especially if it was done without him?
2006-09-25 07:48:14 · 24 answers · asked by Lynn L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Does he know about it? How does he feel if he does know? Some say it is some say it isn't in my relationship he knows that I also like women and that I may one day have one as part of my life again and he agrees that as long as I am up front with him and don't hide anything then it's not cheating. But the key is that he has to be ok with it.
2006-09-25 09:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, cheating it is! i mean does it matter if the woman in question was a guy and had a sex change? haha It does matter. It's not simply adding sugar to your coffee as some would say- it's trust thing!
2006-09-25 07:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men usually define cheating as being with another man, and don't see other women as a threat. Just tell him about it.
2006-09-25 07:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's just the same but sometimes it makes the guy feel like crap because you cheated with a girl! I mean think about it.....
2006-09-25 08:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by silenceridge88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is only cheating because you did not include the man. Come on now, why would you not let your man be a part of that!!
2006-09-25 07:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by b_iceman2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH Yeah. If he was with another man would that be cheating -without you? WOW!
2006-09-25 07:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by BeautyMark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, and he would love to see you two together. Bring her home, open a bottle of wine, and all get undresses and have fun and see ho he reacts. I bet that he loves you all the more for it...and the sex will be even better with the three of you.
2006-09-25 07:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by orygunduk1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter say's eaten ain't cheatin. Women will call you a lesbian and men will just call you Sexy. But do let the hubby at least watch or join every now and then.
2006-09-25 07:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep it is....it is a betrayal of trust....
Look at it this way...if you are unwilling or too scared to tell your spouse about your behavior..then there must be something wrong with it.....
2006-09-25 07:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by billtucker67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-25 07:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by spunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋