No matter who I date, no matter how deep my love is for them; and even if I'm not sexually bored with them I still want sex with other women. The only time I don't think about sex with other women is when I first date a new woman, like the first coyple of months, when I'm totally into her and things are fresh and exciting; but after that point I start thinking about others again. I have left many relationships not because the relationship was bad but because I wanted to just have sex with another female. I keep doing this and it has been a pattern. It's like I have two of me inside. One thinks "I love this women so much and that I never want to be without her" while the other thinks, and battles "that girl is hot, imagine how it would be with her." The horny one always beats the loving one. I know this sounds crazy but it is what's going on in my head. I'm in my 6th serious relationship and contemplating bailing again. How do I stop this? Horny me is killing emotional me!!
2006-09-25 07:32:14 · 5 answers · asked by 46&2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
how old are you???? but in any case try not to let the "horny you" defeat the "emotional you".....or maybe you just don't want to date exclusively yet......try getting a friends with benefits.......
2006-09-25 07:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll settle down when you find the "right one." You'll KNOW cause she'll sweep you off your feet and will probably be the one you marry. Until then, relax and enjoy the lifestyle you're living now. There are way too many options out there for you to just be satisfied with ONE woman right now. It's not that you wouldn't like to have relationships, just right now, you can have all the relations you want. When the time comes, you'll know.
2006-09-25 14:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well youhave a problem in a way even thou most man deep inside they desire the same thing they keep their minds in their own partners some of them they fantasies that thye are with someone else but is a way why u dont actually talk to your currentpartner and try to have games experience new thing s maybe like this ur mind can be just with her
2006-09-25 14:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. If there were emotions to be had, they would have taken precedence. You can most likely figure out why it hasn't.
2006-09-25 14:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by Aurred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fantasy. just pretend your with someone else. or you will end up a lonley old man someday.
2006-09-25 14:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋