My best friend who i have known for YEARS ...is a very demanding person..things have to be her way at all times and if she does not get what she wants....she freaks..but knowing this i still continued a friendship with her which was very rewarding. she knows everything about me and my mom even watches her son when she works...
then i met a guy i am going to marry..but while i was seeing him ..she felt neglected..or something ..because i was not always doing things for her.
and then when she found out i was going to europe to meet his family..she lost it!! and said some things that YOU NEVER SAY to people....i mean...girls can be bitches but this was .....i cant even describe it..evrything i told her was thrown in my face but like an enemy would say... .and when i got back..she acted like nothing happened and if i could babysit her son while she went to work. and i really want nothing to do with her anymore.....AT ALL...because of something so small..is this normal or should i forget it
2006-09-25 07:23:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The way that you are feeling right now is perfectly normal. Instead of being a really good friend to you, she said some really hurtful and mean things to you. This girl's emotions is like a roller coaster ride- one minute she is happy when it's all about her, and the next minute when it is all about you, she is not happy. I can't believe she acted like nothing happened when you got back from Europe. She's not a good friend and good friends are hard to find these days. If you really want to take the time to find out why she's acting the way she's acting, talk to her about it and call her on it. The bottom line: she doesn't deserve a friend like you. Do what you think is best for you- if you want to continue the friendship that is. Otherwise, find a new friend who will share your happiness- not just hers.
2006-09-25 07:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she blew up because your focus wasn't on her. That you went and did something that didn't involve her. I think your feeling like this because you don't want to give her another reason to hurt you. You need to tell her what she did that hurt you and how she's making you feel. She needs to realize that things aren't always going to be the way she wants them and she also needs to realize that her actions hurt people. Honestly I don't blame you for not wanting to have anything to do with her. Why should you be there for her when she couldn't be happy for you when you needed her to be, instead she blew up like a little kid who didn't get her way. And now that she got over it she wants you as a babysitter/friend etc. to help her out. If I were you I'd tell her why should I be here for you when you need help but you can't be the kind of friend I am to you when I need you to be. She needs to learn that friendship goes both ways. That it's not just about her. I think you should be the one to put her in her place because maybe it would sink in better if she heard it from you. Best of luck!
2006-09-25 07:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forgive her. I know it might sound hard, but for whatever reason she got mad, you must forgive her. Why would you want to hold that inside and let it eat at you? She might have felt that you were going to decide to stay in Europe. People who are insecure like that, get mad for various reasons. You need to be the bigger person and forgive her. No one says you have to still be friends with her, but you can forgive her.
2006-09-25 08:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal.She had no remorse for the hurt she caused.Yet she asked you to babysit. It also sounds like she is using you.
2006-09-25 07:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by eva b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forgive her. what are friends are for?
2006-09-25 07:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by ahhhlain 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋